Ah, summer vacation! That glorious time when kids can finally kick back after the grind of a school year. My son, Leo, wrapped up third grade feeling accomplished yet exhausted from endless homework and standardized tests. He was absolutely ready for a break—after all, who wouldn’t be? But after a week of lounging around, I knew it was time to put an end to the couch potato lifestyle.
Now, don’t get me wrong; I’m not trying to be the meanest mom on the block. I think I’m a pretty cool mom, actually. However, watching a bright, energetic 9-year-old glued to the couch all day just won’t do. So, I decided to whip up a list of chores that would not only keep Leo occupied but also transform him into a contributing member of our household.
Here’s the evolving list of tasks I’ve come up with so far:
- Declutter for a Yard Sale
Let’s face it—our house could use a good purge. Leo and I are going through every nook and cranny to gather items for a yard sale. Previously, I would handle this alone while the rest of the family avoided the chaos. This year, Leo’s on board, and the best part? He gets to keep the cash from whatever he sells. - Babysitting
With an adult around, it’s time for Leo to step into the role of caretaker for his little brother. I deserve a few minutes to myself, whether it’s to shower or simply catch my breath. Leo can manage some playtime and keep the two of them from driving me bonkers for short stretches. - Family Archiving
My dad recently sent me a treasure trove of old family photos while downsizing. Sorting through them and deciding what to preserve or pass on to my sister is a huge task perfect for Leo. It’s educational, and who knows? We might even uncover some family secrets along the way! - Cleaning Baseboards and Walls
You know those chores that always get pushed aside? Yep, the baseboards and walls are among them. Luckily, Leo thinks splashing water around is a blast, so I’m handing him some rags and soapy water. It’s a win-win! - Learning to Cook
Let’s level up Leo’s cooking skills! He already mastered cereal and orange juice this year; now it’s time to tackle sandwiches. Who knows, he might even whip up lunch for me—talk about a summer bonus! - Yard Work
What better way to get some fresh air and exercise than by doing yard work? Leo can sweep leaves, pull weeds, and water plants—saving my back in the process. Plus, it’s a great chance for him to connect with nature, even if it’s just in our backyard. - Washing the Car
Leo and his brother are always looking for an excuse to get wet, so why not channel that enthusiasm into washing the car? With a bucket of soapy water, they can turn their splashing into something productive—sort of! - Sewing
Believe it or not, Leo actually enjoys sewing! He can help with mending socks and buttons, and I’m excited to see him tackle that ever-growing “needs mending” pile on my dresser. Who knew he’d have such a knack for it? - Handiwork
Leo is naturally curious about how things work, so why not teach him practical skills? This summer, he’ll learn how to change lightbulbs, use screwdrivers, and maybe even assemble that new bookshelf he’s been eyeing. Pride in handiwork is a fantastic feeling!
As with all parenting adventures, I know that things may not go entirely as planned. But keeping the atmosphere positive makes a world of difference. So far, Leo has been involved in creating this list, making him more likely to follow through.
These chores aren’t just about keeping him busy or getting him off the couch; they’re about instilling a sense of responsibility and pride in contributing to our household. After all, if he doesn’t pitch in, there’s no way video games or ice cream will be on the agenda this summer!
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Summary
This summer, keep your tween active and engaged with these nine chores designed to instill responsibility and pride in contributing to the household. From decluttering for a yard sale to learning practical skills like sewing and handiwork, these tasks not only get them off the couch but also teach valuable life lessons.