Lately, I’ve stumbled upon some hilarious posts comparing the quest for new mom friendships to dating. There’s the subtle flirting, the lighthearted banter to avoid coming off as uptight, and even the effort to assure others you’re not judgmental by sharing all the things you totally don’t judge—kinda like guys trying to prove they’re not the creepy type at a bar.
Now that we’ve cracked the code on how to connect with fellow moms, let’s discuss what NOT to do when you meet that one mom who seems to be your ideal match. You know the one—she shares your disdain for Target while still shopping there, loves those Angry Cat memes, and frequents that cozy coffee shop near the park where your kids play. Your excitement builds as you plan to invite her for a fun girls’ night out, but then—POOF! She ghosts you.
She’s just not that into you.
Yep, just like the dating scene, right? And just like in dating, you’ve got to keep your cool and move on to the next potential mom friend without harboring any ill feelings. You know, rise above the drama.
So, if you’re determined to take the high road, here are some tips for handling this kind of friend breakup:
- No Facebook Stalking: I know, it’s tempting, but resisting the urge to check your friend request status every five seconds is essential. Spoiler alert: It’s not going to be accepted because she’s just not that into you.
- Avoid Gossiping: Don’t casually mention to a mutual acquaintance that she seems distant or preoccupied. It’s awkward, and honestly, it’s just another way of admitting that she’s just not that into you.
- Don’t Be Awkward at Events: Please, for the sake of your sanity, don’t ignore her at soccer games or playdates. Don’t become that drama mama. She can see you chatting up everyone else while avoiding eye contact. Remember: she’s just not that into you.
- Don’t Take It Personally: If you spot her laughing it up with another mom at the playground, try not to dwell on it. Maybe you pushed too hard, or maybe she just clicked with someone else. Sometimes, it’s just not meant to be. Is it really worth feeling bad about a friendship that wasn’t a good fit?
The phrase “she’s just not that into you” might sting at first. Initially, I wondered what kind of person could drop a friend like a hot potato. It turns out, the ones who do that probably weren’t the best friends to begin with. It’s freeing to flip the narrative and recognize that it’s not on you—she simply can’t see how fabulous you are.
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In summary, while it can be tough to navigate the ups and downs of friendships and the occasional rejection, it’s all part of the journey. Remember: if a friendship fizzles out, it’s not always a reflection of your worth. Sometimes, it’s just that they couldn’t appreciate the amazing person you are!