After nearly a decade of perfecting my friendship skills, especially among fellow moms, I can confidently say I’ve got this down to an art. From embracing the chaos of a messy home to ensuring my guest bathroom has its share of surprises, I’m here to share my top 9 tips for being a great friend!
- Don’t Stress About a Clean House
Honestly, there’s something comforting about a bit of clutter when visiting a friend’s home. A little chaos makes everyone feel at ease, and let’s face it, a less-than-perfect bathroom is a reminder that we’re all just human. Plus, I can always rely on my dog or kids to add their own unique scent to the mix – you’re welcome! - Embrace the Kid Chaos
When chatting on the phone, my friends know they’ll hear my kids’ wild antics in the background. It’s my way of gifting them a sense of normalcy in their own parenting journeys. If their little ones aren’t screaming, they can feel like super moms compared to my delightful chaos! - Accidentally Burn Dinner
If you want to make your guests feel like culinary geniuses, just mess up a meal. One Thanksgiving, I left the turkey’s insides in, making a grand show of it at dinner. Everyone felt better about their cooking skills – mission accomplished! - Keep It Casual
I’ll admit, I usually look pretty put together, but I make an effort to keep it real. Before heading out, I might dab a bit of baby food on my clothes or strategically wear my favorite holey jeans. Who wants their friends feeling inadequate? - Forget Your Child Occasionally
Okay, I haven’t done this yet, but I’m saving it for a rainy day. Forgetting a kid somewhere will definitely make your friend feel like they’re winning at motherhood, no matter how their day is going! - Post Realistic Updates on Social Media
You won’t catch me sharing posts about how my kids love to tidy up or how I’m fitting into my jeans. Instead, I’m all about keeping it real with updates like, “Why is this lice situation never-ending?” or “How did I gain 15 pounds this week?” A little honesty goes a long way in friendship! - Abandon Minivan Cleanliness
Minivans are made for chaos! Once I stopped cleaning mine, my friends felt a lot better about their own rides. Who needs minivan envy when we can embrace the goldfish crumbs and mystery smells together? - Rock Pajamas in Public
Nothing feels more liberating than seeing another mom in SpongeBob pajama pants while dropping off kids at preschool. If you want to be a great friend, embrace the PJs! - Leave a Few Floaters
Before guests arrive, I always make sure to leave a couple of floaters in the toilet. Nothing makes people feel better about themselves than discovering that they’re not alone in the bathroom struggles!
Some of these tips might be easier to adopt than others, but once you start practicing, your friendship game will soar! And for more on navigating the journey of motherhood and conception, check out this excellent resource on IVF.
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