Your bright smiles light up my days, and your little arms wrap around me, wanting my presence at every moment. It’s a beautiful chaos, and sometimes it’s hard to tell where you end and I begin; we are so deeply woven together.
When I first stepped into the role of a mother, it was a whirlwind of confusion. I grappled with my identity as my fiercely guarded independence gave way to an overwhelming need to nurture, and to be needed in return. Babies don’t negotiate, and you were no exception. I became a new version of myself—both more and less than I thought I’d be. You shaped me before you even entered this world, and we’ve been dancing through life ever since.
But I know this isn’t a permanent state. There will come a day, sooner than I can fathom, when you won’t seek the comfort of my embrace or my voice as your shield against the world. You’ll carve out your own path, seeking your identity away from me and perhaps even from one another. My greatest wish is for you and your sisters to always support each other, because no one else will share your memories, your upbringing, or your parents like you will. The thought of this separation tugs at my heart, but it’s my responsibility to prepare you for it, to equip you for the battles ahead, most importantly, the battles within yourselves.
When you find yourselves caught between who you aspire to be and the reality of who you are, I hope you can tap into the essence of your true selves. I want you to feel whole, even when life seems to fracture you, even when the days drain you and the nights stretch endlessly. I want you to remember who you are, especially in moments when I cannot be by your side. There will be times when the weight of the world feels suffocating. In those moments—where time stands still—I hope you’ll discover me within yourself, but more importantly, I hope you’ll discover you.
You are my daughters, my loves, my blood. Yet, you do not belong to me; you belong to yourselves. Claim that ownership daily. Embrace your space and let your eyes shine with confidence. Speak your name with strength and warmth. Cherish your body—the one that lets you swing high and dream big—because it is your sanctuary, a place where no one else has claim.
As young women, you may often feel the pressure to showcase or conceal your body, to rush or slow down, to experience joy or deny it altogether. You’ll be asked to perform impossible feats, to become women before you’re ready. Don’t let the voices of “them,” “her,” or “him” drown out the voice that truly knows you.
Remember, those external opinions may try to twist your perception of beauty and worth, making you see your body as something to be judged or adorned, rather than as your vessel. Even in your strongest moments, you may feel the weight of those judgments. But in the quiet corners of your mind, remember: only you get to determine your worth.
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In summary, embrace who you are, trust in your journey, and remember to claim yourselves every day. You are stronger than you know.