It recently hit me that it’s been nine months since I signed my book deal. Just like with my pregnancies, this journey has been filled with stress, excitement, and everything in between. It’s uncanny how the gestation period parallels the arrival of a new child, because this book has truly become my fourth baby. But it’s not just about timing; the entire experience of launching this book has mirrored the ups and downs of motherhood.
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Expect the Unexpected
I always imagined that pregnancy and childbirth would be this miraculous experience, where I’d feel like a goddess overflowing with love. I thought becoming a published author would grant me instant intellectual prowess. Spoiler alert: neither turned out to be true. I found pregnancy miserable and was even reprimanded during a reading for my colorful language. Some things never change! -
Obsessed Much?
When my first child, Emma, was born, I bombarded everyone with pictures and updates, driving my friends and family a bit mad. She was all I could think about – sound familiar? Nowadays, it feels like I’m writing exclusively about my book! -
Too Much Information
Folks love to share their opinions, whether I want them to or not. Just the other day, I received a message from a stranger in Texas critiquing my outfit choices for a book event. Like, did I ask for fashion advice? I never sought opinions on baby names or my choice to use formula, so why the unsolicited feedback on my wardrobe? -
Using the Baby Card
You know that blissful haze you’re in when you have a newborn? Everyone understands when you’re a sleep-deprived mess. Well, I’m back in that dreamy state, but instead of dealing with diaper changes, I’m navigating deadlines and editing sessions. -
Riding the Emotional Rollercoaster
The lows can be downright disheartening. I once had a book signing in Concord, New Hampshire, where only one person showed up. I think it’s safe to say you should never have fewer attendees at your book event than the number of people who have witnessed your most vulnerable moments during childbirth. Trust me, standing at a table trying to convince random passersby to buy your book is a new low! -
Highs that Lift You Up
Despite the sleepless nights and moments of frustration, there are those magical moments that make it all worth it. Just like cradling your baby and feeling the weight of the world lift, I had an exhilarating experience when I found out my book made it onto the New York Times Best Seller list. Talk about a rush! -
The Moment of Joy
For me, the pinnacle moment with each of my kids was that first smile. With this book, it was the thrill of hitting that bestseller list. Pure joy! And I couldn’t have done it without your amazing support.
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In summary, writing a book is a wild ride that echoes the experience of bringing a baby into the world. From unexpected challenges to overwhelming joy, the parallels are uncanny. Just like parenting, it’s a journey filled with love, frustration, and unforgettable moments.