Hey there, Super Mom! If you’re the one who can magically get your little one to nap, that’s perfectly fine. If you’re the designated sleep guru at bedtime, that’s totally okay too. Feeling like a night away from your child is unimaginable? That’s completely normal. But if you can picture it, that’s fine too!
Sometimes, it’s okay to feel a twinge of resentment about your child’s huge need for you. And other times, you might feel an overwhelming rush of love because of it. If your toddler still wakes up for midnight snacks from the breast, you’re not alone. It’s also alright to reach for the breast when you’re just too tired to move off the couch, or to avoid a tantrum.
And yes, it’s totally fine to “still” offer nursing, even if you occasionally wish for a break. If you ever feel touched out or find yourself zoning out on your phone during nursing sessions, that’s cool too. There’s a special warmth in those moments of nursing, and it’s okay if you cherish it.
Wondering when your little one will finally stop nursing? That’s a common thought! Whether you’re planning a gentle wean or secretly hoping to speed things up, it’s all part of the journey. Your nursing toddler might nurse more or less than a friend’s child, and that’s okay. The bond you share through nursing is unique, even if you sometimes feel lost when you’re apart.
It’s natural to think about reclaiming your body, sleep, and a bit more freedom. Yet, it’s also okay to savor those cozy moments together or even to feel a bit resentful about it. You can experience all these feelings at once, and it’s perfectly normal. Remember, mammals have been nursing their babies into toddlerhood for ages, dealing with a whirlwind of emotions along the way.
Embrace your instincts and listen to both your child and yourself. Accept what is, without overthinking it. And most importantly, feel the love!
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Summary:
This piece reassures mothers nursing toddlers that it’s okay to feel a mix of emotions—from love and joy to frustration and exhaustion. It emphasizes that every nursing journey is unique and encourages moms to embrace their instincts and feelings. There are resources available for those exploring pregnancy and home insemination, offering support and guidance.