Updated: Dec. 12, 2016
Originally Published: July 27, 2011
Welcoming a new baby is a whirlwind of emotions, and it’s completely normal to experience moments of panic. Most new parents find themselves stuck in a rollercoaster of “awww” and “I can totally handle this” to “OMG, what am I doing?!” Here are five perfectly relatable worries every new parent faces:
1. Is the baby breathing?
You might wake up in a cold sweat or dash out of the shower with suds still in your hair, just to check if your little one is still breathing. You’ll stand there for what feels like forever, analyzing the rise and fall of their chest. Was that a strange noise? Is everything okay? No need to feel embarrassed; we’ve all been there!
2. Is she getting enough to eat?
Newborns sleep a lot, and unless there’s a medical concern, you don’t need to meticulously track every ounce they consume. It’s perfectly fine if your baby dozes off before finishing her meal. If she’s been snoozing for hours or leaves a bit in the bottle, she’s not going to starve. A gentle tickle on those tiny toes can help wake her for a top-off!
3. Is her poop normal?
Ah, the joys of baby poop. It’s often strange-looking and has a smell that can make you question your life choices. You’ll find yourself spending countless hours discussing and analyzing those little surprises. Spoiler: it’s all part of the adventure!
4. Does he look normal?
Let’s face it, babies don’t always emerge looking like the perfect little angel. An oddly-shaped head, a little jaundice, or crossed eyes are all perfectly acceptable. If he was born with hair, some may fall out, and he might develop a flat spot on his head from his sleeping position. It’s all part of the growing process, so don’t sweat it!
5. Is he sleeping too much?
Refer to point number two. Babies are hard workers, and they need their rest! In those early days, it’s normal for your little one to snooze around 18 hours a day. They’ll wake up just long enough to eat, poop, and give you a loving stare before drifting back to dreamland!
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In summary, the early days of parenthood can be both thrilling and terrifying. It’s completely normal to have worries about your baby’s health and well-being. Just remember, you’re not alone in this journey—every new parent goes through it!