Before I became a parent, I had a laundry list of things I swore I would never do once I had kids. My little ones wouldn’t be caught dead in tacky character tees. My daughter would only wear one-piece swimsuits. Family dinners would be a nightly tradition, and if the kids didn’t want the healthy meal I slaved over, they’d just have to go to bed hungry. I promised I would always wear jeans—even at home with a baby—so I wouldn’t fall into the trap of lounging in sweats and tees. Thank you notes would be written immediately upon receiving a gift, and TV time would be limited to just one show a day. The list went on and on—classic childless fantasies at their finest. And topping it all off: my kids would absolutely never play with toy guns.
Fast Forward to Reality
Fast forward a few years, and I’ve broken every single one of those rules. TV turned out to be the best (and most available) babysitter, and cozy family dinners became a distant memory. I discovered that tankinis could be adorable, and who really needs to rush thank you notes, anyway? All of it seemed harmless enough.
The Toy Gun Dilemma
But then came the guns. I managed to hold out for three long years until one fateful summer day when I caved and bought a tiny water gun for our local pool. Little did I know this would be the gateway to a whole arsenal of nerf guns, bullets, and targets. We transformed into that household I vowed we’d never be. Now, it’s a nightly occurrence for my kids to chase each other around the house, shooting, ducking, and pretending to fall dramatically.
A Tragic Wake-Up Call
But then the news of a tragic shooting in Colorado hit, claiming the lives of at least 12 people. It made me reconsider everything. Maybe I should gather up every toy gun in the house and toss them out, resurrecting that forgotten rule of mine. Two-piece swimsuits are one thing, but how did I let toy guns slip into our lives? How did shooting become just another game?
Finding a Balance
I get it—kids with toy guns aren’t the ones committing violence. Yet, allowing them to view guns as playthings can’t be entirely beneficial either. Of course, knowing my boys, they’d probably just turn everyday objects like spoons and wands into their weapons of choice. So what’s the solution? One thing is certain: I won’t be thrilled about my kids running around like little soldiers tonight.
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Conclusion
In summary, it’s a wild ride navigating parenthood with all its twists and turns, especially when it comes to setting rules that often get broken. From toy guns to family dinners, it’s a balancing act.