“Are those pot brownies?” my child blurted out during a casual snack time. I thought about correcting them, “You mean ‘pot brownies,’ right?” She just shrugged and asked, “What’s the difference?” Cue the awkward silence—time for a serious chat about drugs.
I wasn’t even sure if people really made crack brownies—do they?—but I knew it was time to dive into the nitty-gritty of marijuana. The reality is, with recreational use now legal in several places, kids might think, “If it’s legal, it must be fine.” Let’s be clear: it’s still illegal for minors. Explaining why it’s acceptable for adults in some states but not for them is no easy task. According to parenting expert, Lisa Johnson, who works with families in challenging situations, it’s essential to discuss this topic openly and without judgement.
Start the Dialogue
Lisa suggests broaching the subject around age 10, but if your child has questions earlier—maybe they saw something on a show—don’t hesitate to engage. Start by asking, “What do you know about marijuana?” or “What do you think about its legalization?” Avoid making it feel like a formal meeting; kids are likely to shut down if they sense a lecture coming.
Set Clear Boundaries
Kids thrive when they know the rules, Lisa explains. However, harsh punishments won’t likely deter them from using marijuana; in fact, it could harm your relationship. Be clear about your expectations, and let them know you’re available for a chat anytime—they may feel more comfortable coming to you for guidance.
Skip the Old Campaigns
Remember those old “This is Your Brain on Drugs” ads? They might have been memorable, but as Dr. Michael Reed from the Colorado Department of Health pointed out, those messages can turn kids off. Instead of scaring them with facts about brain damage, try focusing on what they care about—things like graduating, driving, and future opportunities. “Talk about how using marijuana can jeopardize their chances for success,” he suggests.
Be Honest About Your Experiences
You don’t need to share every detail about your past, but if your kid asks directly, it’s best to be truthful. “You could say something like, ‘I tried it once, and here’s what happened,’” Lisa advises. If you still partake occasionally, you can mention that you’re of legal age and use it responsibly.
Be There When They Need You
Finally, it’s crucial that your child knows they can reach out to you in a tough spot. Tell them, “If you ever feel unsafe or uncomfortable, call me. I’ll be there to help.” And if that call comes, it’s vital to follow through on your promise to support them.
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In summary, initiating a dialogue about marijuana with your children doesn’t have to be daunting. By keeping it open, honest, and engaging, you can guide them through their curiosities and concerns while maintaining a supportive relationship.