Let me tell you, being a mom is a “huge gig,” as my five-year-old would put it. Nobody really prepared me for this adventure; it’s been a wild ride of figuring things out on the go. But honestly, I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. Sure, there are moments I’ve considered putting my kids up for sale on eBay to the highest bidder, but the thought of a life without them is just too lonely to bear.
Who needs spontaneous happy hour with friends or the latest trendy restaurant? Not me! And as for slipping into stilettos and cute cocktail dresses for a last-minute Vegas getaway—well, those days are a bit rarer now that I have a mini zoo living in my house.
Becoming a mom opened my eyes to a love I never knew existed—real, unconditional, and unwavering LOVE. My own parents prioritized cocktails and a life away from home, so my experience of parental love was a bit skewed. My brother and I often joke that we were raised “by a village,” thanks to the many caring people who guided us to adulthood. Those folks loved us, but it’s just not the same as a parent’s love.
So when I finally became a mother, I was blown away by the depth of that feeling. Holding your child for the first time—whether it’s right after birth or a week later during a precious kangaroo care moment with my twins—it’s an experience that takes your breath away. I can’t fathom loving anything more than my kids.
While I still dream about European vacations and the occasional jaunt to Vegas, I’m perfectly happy trading in those stilettos for a cozy family movie night. I’m grateful every day for the chance to give my girls what every child deserves: parents who prioritize them and love them fiercely. Just crossing my fingers that I don’t mess it up along the way.
Wish me luck?
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In summary, motherhood is a rollercoaster of love and learning that I wouldn’t trade for anything, even if it sometimes feels like a juggling act.