Dear Emily,
I hope this letter finds you well after your first night in the dorm. Thanks to your text, I know you survived your first day on your own, and I must say, I was more than a little relieved!
Leaving you at college stirred up some emotions for me, especially when I got home and found your takeout container still on the table. Anyone who has lived with you knows you have a knack for leaving traces behind. Don’t worry, I’ll tackle your room soon—armed with gloves and a hazmat suit, of course!
Your First Piece of Advice
Now, here’s your first piece of advice: pick up after yourself! And yes, always remember to flush. Your sisters insisted I add that last bit.
Eighteen years felt like an eternity, until that magical moment when I first held you in my arms. Suddenly, those years zipped by in the blink of an eye. The more I tried to slow down time, the faster it flew! I thought I had ample time to teach you everything, but somewhere along the way, the lines blurred between parent and child. I guess I’ve learned that letting go is a part of the deal. It’s tough, but like a mother bird nudging her chick from the nest, it’s necessary for you to learn how to soar. And soar you will!
You’ve made me a better parent, though I’m sure you were my practice run. I hope my mistakes didn’t mess you up too much! I always knew you’d thrive on your own. You’re a force to be reckoned with—stubborn and full of personality. I still chuckle at the memory of you humming the cleanup song while casually moving toys around at preschool. Your teachers were impressed with your “creative” approach to tidying up.
Contributing and Hard Work
As you navigate this new chapter, remember to contribute—whether at home, in school, or at work. Sometimes you’ll need to go above and beyond. Put in the effort, get your hands dirty, and do it all with a smile. Trust me, your hard work will be noticed!
You’ve always been a big personality, confidently leading the way in your group. Just remember, professors don’t always appreciate being corrected, and your roommate? Well, let’s just say keeping her happy is in your best interest.
Your confidence draws people to you, but don’t forget to recognize the gifts of those around you. Everyone has something special to offer, and sometimes the brightest stars shine from within.
Staying Active and Enjoying College
Now, about that “Freshman 15”—it can sneak up on you if you’re not careful! Make sure you stay active. Life isn’t just about scrolling through social media or binge-watching shows. Your dad and I know sports weren’t exactly your jam, but there’s a whole beautiful campus waiting for you to explore. Don’t just sit in your dorm; get out there and enjoy it!
Peer pressure? It’s never been an issue for you. I’ll never forget how you glared at your dad during Christmas dinner when he had a glass of wine—clearly, you were not impressed! I hope you keep that same resolve while also remembering to have some fun (responsibly, of course)! College is a time for experiences, including the occasional dance on tables (once you turn 21, of course!).
Being Yourself and Staying Focused
You’ve never shied away from being yourself—whether that meant wearing paper clips to honor Holocaust victims or getting purple streaks in your hair just for fun. Keep that fire alive; don’t let anyone dim your light!
Stay focused on your studies, meet deadlines, and maintain communication with your professors. You might not always see eye to eye, but they deserve your respect. And hey, don’t forget to smile and laugh at yourself! Enjoy every moment of these next four years.
You have amazing potential, and I can’t wait to see the incredible things you’ll accomplish!
Love,
Mom
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