As I sit beside my little Mia, watching her peacefully sleep, I can’t help but marvel at her beauty. Her large, almond-shaped eyes seem to dance between shades of blue and brown, and those tiny hands and pudgy feet are curled snugly against me. Even though she’s battling a cold, her stillness provides a reassuring reminder that everything is as it should be.
Mia’s extra chromosome isn’t a mistake; it’s simply part of who she is. She was born with Down syndrome, and that’s just her unique spark.
Suddenly, my son Jake bursts into the room, bringing with him the energy of a whirlwind. He snuggles into my other arm, his enthusiasm waking Mia from her slumber. Rubbing the sleep from her eyes, she spots her brother and her face lights up with joy. Before I know it, she’s clambering over me to pounce on Jake, who feigns annoyance before breaking into laughter. “She’s just a baby, she doesn’t do much…” he quips in a comedic tone as he playfully tosses her back to the floor, ready to resume our family cuddle.
This is exactly how it was meant to be. Jake has autism, and like Mia’s condition, it’s not a flaw or a mistake. It’s who he is.
As a parent, I’ve learned to embrace this reality. Acceptance doesn’t mean I wish for less struggle for my kids. I still wish Mia wouldn’t get sick so often or that Jake could find peace in his own body without so much effort. It doesn’t mean I don’t tirelessly seek out the best resources for them, either. My love for them is rooted in who they are, not just their diagnoses. I want the world to see Mia and Jake as individuals, not just labels. They are different, and that difference is something to celebrate.
Being different adds vibrancy to life. I cherish the uniqueness that each person brings to the table, and I’m grateful for the lessons learned from those who are not like me. Everyone has their own charm, value, and right to be accepted for who they are.
We were not meant to be carbon copies of one another. Instead, we were designed to shine in our own ways. You were made to be the person you are, with your unique perspective on life, shaped by your experiences. So, don’t blend in—stand out!
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In Summary
Embracing our differences enriches our lives and those around us. It’s essential to celebrate who we are and to ensure that everyone is seen for their individuality, rather than just their challenges.