Dear Freshmen Everywhere:
High school can be a jungle! I know you might not want to hear this, but the hallways are filled with kids darting in every direction. There’s the jocks, the drama queens, the band nerds, and, of course, the “cool kids.” And yes, I’m sure I’m missing a few, but trust me, they’re all part of the fun.
You’ll meet all sorts of people, and believe it or not, that’s a great opportunity! Sure, you might feel more at home with folks who share your taste in music or your obsession with video games. But some of the most rewarding friendships can be found in the most unexpected places, much like the lessons I picked up from classic TV shows of the ’70s, ’80s, and ’90s. Yes, you really can learn about life from TV characters, and I’m here to prove it!
Zack and Cody Martin (The Suite Life of Zack and Cody)
These twin brothers couldn’t be more different. Zack was the charming troublemaker, while Cody was the studious type. Yet, they always had each other’s backs. The lesson? Embrace your differences! Just because you don’t share the same interests doesn’t mean you can’t be the best of friends.
Lucy Ricardo and Ethel Mertz (I Love Lucy)
These two ladies were always getting into some kind of mischief. Lucy’s wild ideas often landed them in trouble, but Ethel was always right there, ready to join in. The takeaway? Find a friend who encourages you to step out of your comfort zone—just be careful not to get too wild!
Angela Chase and Rayanne Graff (My So-Called Life)
Angela was more reserved, while Rayanne was the life of the party. Their friendship taught us that opposites attract. Rayanne helped Angela break free from her shell, and Angela grounded Rayanne. The lesson here? Balance is key in friendships; support each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
Sam Malone and Diane Chambers (Cheers)
Their relationship was filled with ups and downs, but they always found their way back to each other. The lesson? Romantic entanglements can complicate friendships. Remember, there’s plenty of fish in the sea, so don’t let a crush ruin your bond with your best friend.
Cory Matthews and Shawn Hunter (Boy Meets World)
Cory was the everyman, while Shawn had a bit of a rebellious streak. No matter what challenges they faced, they always supported one another. Their friendship teaches us that no matter how different your paths may be, true friends will always stick together.
So, dear freshmen, as you embark on this new adventure, remember to seek out those friendships that challenge you and bring out the best in you. Whether you’re the adventurous type or the studious one, everyone has something valuable to offer. And hey, if you’re into math, don’t ditch your mathlete friends just yet!
For more insights on navigating relationships and home insemination, check out this article from our other blog. And for an expert perspective on the journey toward parenthood, Make A Mom is a fantastic resource. If you’re curious about pregnancy options, Healthline offers great information too!
In summary, high school is not just about classes and tests; it’s also about the friendships you form along the way. Embrace the differences, support each other, and who knows? You might just find your lifelong bestie in the most unlikely person.