Spring is just around the corner, and for many parents, that signals the impending graduation of their teens. My daughter is nearing the finish line of her high school journey. It feels like we’re in the final inning of a game, and she’s ready to wrap it up, which fills me with both excitement and concern. After all, a bad bout of senioritis could lead to some major mistakes in this crucial stretch. Here are five signs that she might be facing this classic condition:
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Constant Complaints About High School
My daughter keeps declaring, “High school is so pointless.” After visiting several colleges, it’s no surprise that her high school experience feels more like a daycare. While it’s completely normal for seniors to feel this way, I remind her that just a few years ago, she was in a much different place developmentally. If she weren’t feeling a little out of place, I might actually worry! -
A Total Lack of Motivation
With her college acceptance in hand, housing sorted out, and academic advisors met, her interest in cramming for a surprise quiz has plummeted. Honestly, who can blame her for not caring about the finer points of King George II when she’s got a whole new world awaiting her? -
Mornings Are a Struggle
Getting her out of bed has transitioned from a challenge to an outright battle. She now confidently proclaims, “Being late doesn’t matter; I’m a senior.” I take this opportunity to chat about the importance of punctuality in the adult world. After all, showing up on time is a skill she’ll need in any job—even when she’s the boss! -
Old Friends Are No Longer Interesting
Friends from elementary school have lost their charm, and she’s eager to meet new people as she prepares for college. While I’m excited for her to make new connections, I remind her to cherish those childhood friendships. They may fade for a bit, but they often come back when she least expects it. Plus, you never know when you might need to smooth things over with someone you’ve known forever. -
Future Talk is Replacing Nostalgia
The stories of sleepovers, football games, and high school dramas are dwindling, replaced by discussions about college life, majors, and the essentials of laundry. She’s even asked, “How do I get the stains out?” and “What should I do if I catch a cold?” It’s a mix of thrilling and terrifying, watching her prepare for the next phase of life.
Senioritis is a common phase that signifies growth and readiness to move beyond adolescence. While it can be a bit frustrating, it’s also a positive sign that our kids are gearing up for their next big adventure. Here’s to you and the high school senior in your life, even if they are driving you slightly bonkers right now!
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Summary
As your high school senior approaches graduation, you might notice signs of senioritis—complaints about school, lack of motivation, struggles with morning routines, waning interest in old friends, and more focus on the future. Despite the challenges it brings, this phase is a natural part of their growth, signaling readiness for the next chapter of life.