As I approach my 40s and prepare for new adventures, I find myself reminiscing about the comforting movies and shows that shaped my teenage years during the ’80s and early ’90s. My childhood was filled with classics like Sesame Street and The Electric Company, and I grew up with The Cosby Show, Family Ties, and eventually Beverly Hills, 90210. The films I adored featured stars like Molly Ringwald, Andrew McCarthy, and Ethan Hawke, and they left a lasting impression on me. Recently, I chuckled at the realization that some of the values I’m instilling in my children originated from those iconic flicks. Here are ten films I hope they’ll embrace:
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We’re All More than Labels. (The Breakfast Club)
My oldest son is beginning to categorize his friends, much like I did in middle school. I remind him that everyone has their own struggles, and we can’t just label people. As Patrick Dempsey’s character in Can’t Buy Me Love wisely noted, “It’s hard enough just trying to be yourself.”
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Strive for Greatness. (Say Anything)
In high school, I aimed for mediocrity, but I want my children to rise above that. Lili Taylor’s words to John Cusack’s Lloyd ring true: don’t just be a guy—be a man. I encourage my kids to pursue what’s right, even if it’s tough to do so.
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Your Parents Were Once Young Too. (Back to the Future)
Watching Michael J. Fox’s Marty McFly interact with his clueless parents was eye-opening. I want my kids to know that I was once in their shoes, and while I don’t have all the answers—especially when it comes to new math—I do have some wisdom to share.
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It’s Okay to Like Who You Like. (Pretty in Pink)
I adored Andrew McCarthy, but I also had a soft spot for Jon Cryer’s Duckie. Life is complicated, and it’s normal for feelings to be unreciprocated. I hope to teach my kids the importance of treating others kindly, regardless of their own feelings.
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Words Have Power. (Dead Poets Society)
While we may lament the rise of social media, the impact of words is undeniable. I want my children to understand that their thoughts can create change. Robin Williams’ character wasn’t talking about social media, but the essence remains—words can transform the world, and I want my children’s words to do just that.
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Don’t Forget to Enjoy Life. (Ferris Bueller’s Day Off)
My son recently pointed out that I often focus too much on his mistakes rather than his achievements. He’s right! I want him to embrace adventure, break a few rules, and enjoy life—after all, who wouldn’t want to skip school for a day of fun?
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Kindness Matters. (Singles)
One memorable scene from Singles had Bridget Fonda’s character longing for a partner who would say “bless you” when she sneezed. It might sound trivial, but I constantly remind my kids to be polite and show consideration for others, especially in our tech-obsessed world.
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We’re All Unique. (The Goonies)
The Goonies was a staple of my childhood. The message that we are all valued and loved is one I hope to instill in my kids. They are my greatest achievements, my “best inventions,” and I want them to recognize their worth.
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Love Transcends Time and Space. (E.T.: The Extraterrestrial)
I remember sobbing when E.T. had to leave Elliott. The idea that we can keep each other in our hearts is profound, even for adults! If a rubbery alien can convey that message, it’s definitely worth sharing with my children.
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Never Underestimate a Sicilian. (The Princess Bride)
This iconic line stands strong on its own and is a timeless lesson on strategy and wit.
These films shaped my perspective and values, and I hope to pass on the lessons they contain to my kids. For those interested in insights about home insemination, check out this resource, or explore fertility boosters for men. And if you’re looking for more parenting insights, take a look at our related blog post.
In summary, these movies offer timeless lessons about kindness, self-discovery, and the importance of connections. I hope my children will find value in them as I did.