We’ve all encountered those moments. Tantrums are an inevitable part of parenting, occurring everywhere from the comfort of home to grocery store aisles, and even during important virtual meetings. For those who have experienced the chaos of a child’s meltdown, the quickest solution is often to simply ignore it.
In a recent Instagram post, mom-of-two Nicole “Nikki” Thompson showcased this approach while promoting a lovely floral dress from her online boutique. In the background, her son Alex was in the midst of a classic meltdown, sprawled out on the floor. She captioned the post, “Sunday fun day! Don’t mind my little one throwing a fit in the back.”
Unfortunately, as is often the case on social media, some critics emerged, attempting to shame her for taking a selfie while seemingly ignoring her child’s outburst. Clearly, those individuals either lack parenting experience or have forgotten the reality of raising kids. Children throw tantrums; it’s just part of their development.
However, the overwhelming response from fellow mothers was one of support, with many sharing their own experiences. “When my kids had meltdowns, I did the same thing! Ignoring it worked! Eventually, they stopped when they realized no one was paying attention,” one user commented. “You don’t need to be a parent to understand that giving attention during a tantrum is not the way to go—unless they’re in danger, of course. Just let her be,” added another.
Every parent can relate to the “terrible twos” (and threes, fours, and beyond). “It’s a part of parenting, so let’s stop judging each other,” one mom asserted. Another remarked, “Love it! This is what real motherhood looks like—trying to get things done with a little one in the background.”
Occasionally, children need to learn how to calm themselves. Ignoring a tantrum can teach them valuable lessons about self-soothing. Nikki was simply doing what most parents would do in a similar situation.
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In summary, Nikki Thompson’s relatable Instagram moment highlights the realities of parenting amidst chaos, reminding us all that ignoring a tantrum can often be the best response.