Once upon a time, my days revolved around lesson plans, reading circles, and off-key renditions of popular songs while teaching kindergarten. Back then, I was entirely focused on my classroom, pouring my heart into every activity and planning. Although I was young and filled with idealism, I believe I was a good teacher. I had yet to experience motherhood, and I was blissfully unaware of the complexities involved in parenting. If I were to step back into the classroom today, I would undoubtedly be a far more empathetic educator.
As a mom, my perspective on education has shifted dramatically. I now see school through the eyes of my children and the parents of my former students. If I were to return to teaching, I might not necessarily improve my lesson planning, but I would recognize each student as someone’s cherished child. That realization would fundamentally change how I teach.
Key Changes I Would Implement in My Classroom
First and foremost, I would prioritize communication with parents. In my teaching days, I sent out weekly newsletters, thinking that was enough. However, as a parent, I realize how daunting school can be from the outside. I would send daily emails to parents, highlighting the day’s activities and offering conversation starters to help them engage with their children. A Facebook group for parents would also allow them to connect and foster friendships among their kids. Additionally, I would share snapshots and videos of their children in action, fostering a sense of involvement in their daily experiences.
I would also be more attuned to the emotional lives of my students. While I understood that small things could seem monumental to children, I didn’t fully grasp this until I became a mom. I’ve witnessed my own kids come home with heavy hearts, and I often wished I could provide them with instant comfort. In my previous role, I may have overlooked a child’s worries, but I would now give those feelings the respect they deserve. I would actively seek out students who might be hiding their emotions and offer them support and encouragement.
Handwashing would be a non-negotiable routine in my classroom. As a teacher, I sometimes overlooked this crucial step after recess, opting for hand sanitizer in a pinch. Now, as a parent, I see how easily germs can spread. I wouldn’t want to imagine the state of my students’ hands after a day at school!
Ensuring that my students have the chance to eat their lunches would also be a focal point. I used to drop kids off in the cafeteria without checking in on their meals. However, I’ve learned how easy it is for children to skip lunch in a bustling environment. If I were teaching today, I would make a point to check in with students during lunch, ensuring they had adequate time to eat and feel comfortable in that setting.
I would also approach my students’ home lives with compassion. Many of my former students came from challenging backgrounds, and as a teacher, I sometimes misjudged their parents. Now that I’m a parent myself, I understand the immense pressures that come with raising children, and I would treat each family with the respect they deserve. I admire those who manage to send their children to school despite hardships.
Keeping my promises would be another priority. Children have an incredible ability to remember, and it’s essential to follow through on commitments. If I promised a student they could share something special or participate in an activity, I would make it a point to deliver on that promise.
Teaching is undeniably challenging and demanding. I have the utmost respect for educators who juggle numerous responsibilities. However, I recognize that behind each student is a parent who loves them dearly. If I returned to teaching, I would treat each child as I would want my own to be treated.
In summary, motherhood has reshaped my approach to teaching in profound ways. From enhancing communication with parents to fostering emotional awareness and ensuring a safe, nurturing environment, these changes would reflect my newfound understanding of what it means to be a caregiver. These insights have also inspired me to explore the complexities of parenthood, as detailed in one of our other blog posts, which you can read here. For those interested in home insemination, you can find trustworthy resources at Make a Mom, and for more information on pregnancy, visit NICHD.
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