Dear friends who still have their mothers,
Life can change in the blink of an eye. Almost ten months passed from the moment she received her diagnosis to the day we had to say goodbye. Illness has a way of sneaking in, stripping away the vitality and dreams we hold dear. One minute, we’re making plans for the future together, and the next, we’re fighting a relentless battle against an unforgiving foe.
I never envisioned losing my mother this way or so soon. I was unprepared for the sudden loss, as it snatched her away before I could fully grasp the gravity of the situation. While I find solace in my faith and maintain hope, this Mother’s Day marks my first as a mother without my own mom by my side. I will undoubtedly receive cards and gestures of love, yet I can no longer express my gratitude to her. I cannot thank her for the lessons she taught me about motherhood, the good and the not-so-good. I can’t share how deeply she shaped my life as a mother, a wife, and a woman.
So, dear friends who still have your mothers,
Whether your relationship is one of closeness or there are miles between you, please take a moment to reach out this week. Even if you don’t see eye to eye, make an effort to look into her eyes and tell her how much she means to you. No matter how well she has loved you, express your appreciation and let love linger through your words or a warm embrace.
Whether she has been your role model or has shown you what to avoid, acknowledge all that you’ve learned from her. Even if she is not the perfect parent, she is still here, which offers a chance for connection.
Call her, hug her, and surround her with your love, whether it comes naturally or carries a bit of baggage. Seek reconciliation if there’s distance between you, compromise if indifference prevails, and give her your time and attention, even when life feels hectic. Share your affection, even if it’s hard, and shower her with generous love, regardless if you do so often.
Just a year ago, I never considered celebrating Mother’s Day without my mom. So please, don’t let another day go by without reaching out to yours.
Happy Mother’s Day, friends. May you find the grace to give and receive love abundantly.
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In summary, cherish the time you have with your mother, regardless of your relationship dynamics. Reach out, express your love, and make the most of the moments you share.