In today’s world, the notion of age-appropriate attire is often challenged, and rightly so. Take, for example, a remarkable woman in her 60s I know who confidently sports an edgy undercut and statement earrings. She exudes confidence, shattering the stereotype that one must conform to a certain style as they age. I doubt she ever woke up one day and thought, “I’m too old for this,” opting instead for a life filled with vibrant self-expression. She doesn’t seek validation from others and certainly doesn’t care what someone like Linda from the book club is wearing. She embraces her individuality and makes no apologies for it.
Let’s face facts: fashion guidelines can often be ridiculous. If you feel fierce in something, that’s your cue to wear it, regardless of what the fashion elite might dictate. Who decided that horizontal stripes are a no-go for anyone above a size 00? And let’s not even get started on the leggings debate; they are pants, and I intend to wear them all day long, paired with my go-to flannel. I refuse to adhere to outdated fashion rules.
Restricting yourself to a particular style is about as enjoyable as scrubbing the bathroom. The freedom to dress how you please—regardless of age or motherhood—is liberating. So what if you want to wear that whimsical tiara to the grocery store? Do it! You might just brighten someone’s day.
Too often, I hear women say, “I’m too old for that” or “Shouldn’t a mother dress this way?” Last I checked, there’s no expiration date on women’s fashion. If you enjoy experimenting with clothes and makeup, don’t stifle that creativity. With age comes a deeper understanding of one’s self, and honestly, this fabulous journey is just getting underway.
Just because you become a mom or age doesn’t mean you should forget who you were before. What you wear can evoke memories of your youth—those beloved jeans you wore in your 20s or the carefree days before having kids. If you want to throw on a blazer over your yoga pants for a lunch with friends, go for it. Bonus: you can indulge in dessert without feeling guilty!
If you love those chic over-the-knee boots with skinny jeans, wear them unapologetically. Who cares if they remind you of Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman? If you’re going to own a look, own it fiercely. I once stumbled upon a magazine that claimed no one should wear miniskirts after 35. What absolute nonsense! Have you seen the stunning legs of women like Halle Berry? Plus, everyone has unique styles, and it would be dreadfully dull if we all looked the same daily.
Be it trendy or classic, your fashion should express who you are. Don’t let anyone—be it your kids, friends, or popular magazines—dictate your style choices. If you’re hesitating to try something new because you’re a mom or believe you’ve passed your prime, think again. Who even sets these fashion rules? And why do we feel compelled to follow them?
Wear what makes you feel good! If an outfit boosts your confidence, that’s more than enough reason to don it. After all, nothing is as timeless as self-assurance. So go ahead, own your look!
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Summary
Fashion rules are outdated and limiting. Embrace your individuality and wear what makes you feel confident, regardless of age or motherhood status. Self-expression should always take precedence over societal norms.