When my first child came along, I thought I had spoiled him rotten. As an only child for five years, he received all my attention and got away with plenty. I was his personal chef, and let’s just say he didn’t learn to clean up after himself. My universe revolved around him until his little sister arrived.
However, I soon realized that my youngest daughter has the privilege of getting away with even more than her older brother did. While I was hyper-focused on every little thing my firstborn did, I’ve adopted a much more relaxed approach with my second child. I was so concerned about being the ideal parent the first time around, but after a few years of experience, I’ve decided to ease up a lot with my little one.
At nearly 4 years old, she’s my last child, and I find myself wanting to freeze time. Just the other day, I suggested we cancel her birthday so she could stay 3 for a while longer. Here’s a look at some of the shenanigans that would never have flown with her older brother:
- Her First “Meal” Was Dirt
I was stunned when I caught my daughter, at just 5 months old, chomping on dirt she found on our doormat. Yup, that really happened. - The Crib and High Chair Are Permanent Fixtures
I finally said goodbye to the crib after 10 years, but that booster seat? It’s still on the table, and I’ll keep it there forever. Babies are just too cute to let go! - Candy Is the Ultimate Solution
My purse is always stocked with lollipops. Whether it’s a car ride or a parent-teacher conference, a quick candy bribe is my secret weapon. Bribery? You betcha! - Educational Apps Are a Lifesaver
While I spent hours reading with my first child, my youngest mastered colors and shapes via an iPhone app by the time she was a year old. Talk about technology saving the day! - Weaning? Not on My Watch
With my first, I was determined to wean him quickly. With my youngest, I’m in no rush to ditch pacifiers or bottles. They grow up too fast as it is! - Goldfish: The All-Day Snack
Picky eaters unite! Goldfish crackers are a daily staple for breakfast, lunch, and dinner in our house. I know it’s just a phase, but hey, it keeps the peace. - Baby Talk Is Adorable
I loved when my daughter called lemonade “lema-lade.” I did everything to keep that baby talk alive for just a bit longer. - Doctor Visits Are a Rare Occasion
When my youngest complained of a “hurting heart,” I watched her run around moments later and thought, “Kids will be kids.” I remember panicking over every little thing with my first. - Messy Playtime Is Totally Allowed
My youngest loves to unleash chaos! I’ve let her pour soap everywhere just for a moment of peace. After all, who doesn’t love a little soap bath? - Birthday Tears and Toy Overload
I may have gone a bit overboard with gifts for her upcoming birthday. Yup, I just ordered the largest toy imaginable. If only I could freeze her at this age forever.
In the end, I’m savoring every moment with my little one. I know that time passes quickly, and as long as she wants to snuggle on my lap, I’ll gladly ignore the chaos around me.
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