Happy 8th birthday! Before you hit those teenage years when you might find me unbearable, I want to take a moment to express just how much you mean to me.
Honestly, before you came into my life, I was pretty indifferent about kids. I know that sounds odd, but hear me out. I met your dad and didn’t even think about dating him at first. But then he whipped up some pancakes, and I realized not every guy listens, cooks, and has dimples—so I fell for him. Fast forward two years, and there you were!
You are a wonderful blend of your dad and me, and that means everything. You’re sensitive yet strong, hilarious and kind, talented and bright, plus you have a delightful squishiness and fierce determination.
When we became parents in our early 20s, we were terrified. How would we fit a baby into our lives? How could we provide you with the love and support we sometimes lacked growing up? We know we can’t always meet your expectations, but that doesn’t mean we don’t love you. Our screw-ups are simply part of the package deal of being your parents.
Remember that time your dad joked that Jesus was more like a zombie than the son of God? I know you were a bit annoyed with him then, and honestly, he drives me nuts too—like when he gives me an iTunes gift card for Valentine’s Day or leaves a lone glass in the sink after I’ve just washed dishes for the fifth time!
And yes, I still feel guilty about that trip to New York City when I yelled at you in front of your friends. I was just panicking at the Statue of Liberty when I couldn’t find you. You remind me of it often, but I know it’s your way of getting even. Guilt trip achieved!
As your parents, we will undoubtedly mess up. We might:
- hurt your feelings
- make you cry
- disappoint you
- not fulfill every wish
- likely not fund your college
- keep pushing veggies on you
- yell sometimes
- enforce limits like turning off the TV
- ask you to toughen up
- need your help when we’re old and doddering
Your dad and I are not rich investors; we dream big but have a modest bank account. We want you to understand that love and money are different, and we hope we’ve taught you that lesson. It’s important to be clear about our shortcomings so you can be prepared when you seek therapy down the line.
But let me be clear: we are your biggest fans and fiercest supporters. You can share anything with us, and we will always love you unconditionally. We won’t shame you or make you doubt your worth. We aim to guide you through life’s unfair challenges while helping you appreciate your privileges. You are our little miracle—a representation of our love, passion, and commitment.
As you embark on this new year, remember that our love for you remains as strong as it was on your very first day. You are our shining star and our biggest dream. Live boldly, appreciate every moment, stand up for yourself, and pursue everything you desire.
With all our love,
Mom & Dad
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Summary:
As your parents, we know we won’t be perfect, but our love for you is unwavering. We aim to support you through life’s challenges and celebrate your successes, all while being honest about our shortcomings. Embrace life to the fullest, and know that we’ll always be your biggest fans.