For some, the concept of monogamy can feel a bit monotonous. Sure, when you’ve been married long enough that your marriage certificate could use a good dusting, or when you’ve shared so many nights that the idea of donning cute pajamas has become a distant memory, things can start to feel a tad stale. You love your partner, absolutely, but the trade-off in a long-term relationship often includes a loss of that thrilling mystery and excitement that comes with new love.
But Charlie Thompson sees it differently. This author and devoted dad recently crafted a touching tribute to marriage that highlights how we all evolve over time. The person you fell in love with will continue to transform, and that’s a beautiful aspect of long-term relationships. It’s like getting to fall in love with someone new, over and over again.
“Guys worry that marriage means being stuck with just one woman for life,” he shares. “That’s just not the case. I fell in love with a 19-year-old adventurer, married a 20-year-old animal enthusiast, started a family with a 24-year-old mom, built a home with a 25-year-old domestic goddess, and now I’m with a 27-year-old woman full of wisdom.” While Thompson may have primarily focused on leadership in his non-fiction works, his romantic insights are enough to make even the most stoic heart flutter.
His reflections on love have sparked an emotional response from many. His post has been shared over 273,000 times in just under a week, with over 645,000 reactions pouring in from people celebrating their own long-lasting relationships.
Having been with my partner for nearly a decade, I resonate with his thoughts. While he claims his love for my famous lasagna will last a lifetime, I sometimes wonder if we’ll grow weary of each other. Yet, looking back, I realize how much I’ve changed since I was 23 when we first met. I’ve explored new careers, welcomed twins into our lives, and even picked up quirky hobbies. My appearance has shifted too, and I’m sure my younger self would be shocked to see how much joy I get from watching puppy videos. But regardless of the changes, my partner continues to affirm his love for me, sending me those adorable videos that brighten my day.
“You’ll find yourself amazed by the many wonderful versions of her that you get to marry throughout your life,” Thompson advises. “Don’t shy away from marriage; embrace it and say yes every day until you take your last breath.”
Feeling inspired to leaf through your wedding album yet?
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In summary, a touching tribute from a husband about the evolving nature of love in marriage serves as a reminder to cherish the many stages of our partners. As we navigate life together, we have the opportunity to fall in love with new versions of our spouses time and time again.