Picture it: It’s a bright Christmas morning, and my dad takes my little brother and me out for a post-present stroll. We’re skipping ahead when suddenly, a neighbor’s exuberant Irish Setter charges out, knocking my brother over. While the dog’s joyful licks were intended to calm him, my brother was less than thrilled. To this day, he still treads cautiously around unfamiliar dogs.
Because of his fear, I was determined that my own kids wouldn’t share the same apprehensions. I wanted them to feel at ease around dogs and cats, and to know how to interact safely with pets when visiting others’ homes. I even roped in friends with furry companions to help teach my little ones the essential dos and don’ts of pet etiquette. We also decided to wait until our kids were a bit older before adopting a pet, ensuring they understood the responsibilities that come with pet ownership.
When we finally rescued a 2-year-old Shih Tzu last spring, I quickly realized that the responsibility of being a pet parent was even more daunting than I had envisioned. With our new pup’s unique personality came a steep learning curve. I’ve learned that it’s essential for me to ensure she’s well-trained and that we make responsible choices when it comes to walks and neighborhood interactions. Here’s how dog owners and parents can collaborate to keep parks and neighborhoods safe for kids and pets alike:
1. Let’s Teach Children to Approach Dogs Properly.
While our dog adores attention, not all dogs feel the same way. Parents need to remind their kids that some dogs may be frightened or even aggressive if approached too quickly. Teach your little ones to ask the owner for permission before petting and to follow the owner’s guidance. If the owner declines, that’s their cue to back off. In return, I promise to keep my pup away from places that might overwhelm her.
2. I’m Happy to Share My Dog, But Let’s Work Together.
Surprises aren’t enjoyable for anyone, including dogs. Kids should learn to approach dogs from the side, rather than from behind, and to let the dog sniff their hand before petting. It’s a simple way to ensure everyone has a positive experience. I appreciate when parents help me navigate these interactions for the safety of both kids and our dog.
3. Let’s Give Everyone a Break.
Even pets need their quiet time. If a dog retreats to its bed or a cozy spot, encourage your child to give it space. If my dog needs a breather, don’t be offended if I ask your kid to play elsewhere for a bit. It’s just a way to keep the peace in a busy environment.
4. Dogs Enjoy Meals Just Like Us.
When I’m famished, I want no distractions between me and my food. Dogs often have strict feeding schedules and can be protective of their meals. Teach your child that it’s never okay to disturb a pet while it’s eating or drinking. If mealtime coincides with your visit, I’ll ensure there are tasty snacks for the kids while our pup dines.
5. Every Animal Can Be Unpredictable, Even the Sweet Ones.
Regardless of how well-trained a dog might be, it’s crucial for parents to understand that any animal can react unpredictably. Teach your children to respect a pet’s boundaries and feelings. Since adopting our Shih Tzu, we’ve invested time in training to help minimize any risk of her lashing out, but it’s important to remember that no pet is infallible. I’m always eager to share the joy our dog brings, but I appreciate when parents recognize her as part of our family and respect her personal space.
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Summary:
Pet ownership comes with responsibilities that extend beyond the home. Teaching children how to interact safely with pets is crucial to ensuring positive experiences for both kids and animals. With open communication and respect for boundaries, pet owners and parents can work together to foster a safe environment for all.