As we journey through life, we experience growth in many forms. We become more comfortable in our own skin, adapt to the ups and downs of life, and sometimes, we outgrow certain friendships. While we may drift apart from some people, we also have the chance to foster new connections. If you’re hoping to find new friends as an adult, you probably know how challenging it can be. However, when you click with someone, it’s clear that the friendship is genuine. Here are some signs that you’ve found a true friend.
Shared Interests Aren’t Everything
While it’s great to have common interests, the chemistry you share with someone often matters more than your hobbies or preferences. Whether she playfully teases you about your love for CrossFit while you joke about her obsession with hot yoga, you both find joy in your differences. After your workouts, you happily meet up for your favorite coffee to recharge.
Understanding Without Words
You know you’ve got a special bond when a mere glance can convey what you really feel. She reads your expressions perfectly and can whisk you away from any uncomfortable situation with just a look that says, “I need an escape!”
Respect for Each Other’s Lives
A true friend understands that life can be chaotic. She doesn’t expect you to be available all the time and accepts that you might need to cancel plans or take time to respond to messages. She gets it—life happens.
No Need for Frequent Meet-Ups
You can go long periods without seeing each other, yet when you finally catch up, it feels like no time has passed. You both dive into conversations, sharing everything that’s happened since your last get-together.
No Justification Needed
With her, you never feel the need to explain yourself. She encourages you to express your feelings, reminding you that your emotions are valid. Her support feels comforting and affirming.
Acceptance of Your Past
When you share something from your past that might be a bit scandalous, she doesn’t judge you. Instead, she shares her own stories that make yours seem mild, drawing you closer together and allowing for deeper conversations.
Honest Feedback
You can send her a selfie in a new outfit without fear of judgment. She’ll tell you if you look amazing or if it’s not your best choice, all while keeping your feelings in mind. Her honesty comes from a place of care.
Constructive Criticism
While she usually sees the best in you, she will tell you when you’re being unreasonable. You trust her judgment because she always has your best interests at heart.
Unconditional Acceptance
She embraces you just as you are, without trying to change you. You’re not looking for a life coach; you simply want a friend who accepts you wholly.
A Listening Ear
She’s not waiting for her turn to speak. Instead, she listens intently to what you have to say, understanding that sometimes you just need someone to hear you out.
Comfort in Sharing
You’ve both seen some tough times together, which makes sharing food and drinks feel easy and natural. If you needed her spare pair of undies after a laugh-induced mishap, she’d gladly offer!
Even if you weren’t there during pivotal moments in her life, like her first heartbreak or wedding day, it feels as if you’ve always known each other, and you both look forward to causing a ruckus together in the nursing home someday.
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Summary: Adult friendships can be challenging to cultivate, but when you find that special connection, it becomes evident. Signs of a genuine friendship include mutual understanding, respect for each other’s lives, and unconditional acceptance, allowing you both to thrive.