During a recent family vacation, I stumbled upon a sign that read:
- NO STROLLERS
- NO HIGH CHAIRS
- NO BOOSTER CHAIRS
Alright, got it. Clearly, this place isn’t welcoming to families with young children. But what really caught my eye was the additional note: “Children crying or making loud noises are a distraction to other diners, and as such are not allowed in the dining room.”
At first, I thought this sign was a bit of a joke. After all, the restaurant was situated in a bustling tourist area filled with families. Isn’t it common knowledge that kids can be, well, a bit noisy? But then I started thinking about all the distracting adults around me. Shouldn’t we start addressing the real nuisances — the rude adults who think nothing of barging past little ones, or the loud groups celebrating bachelor or bachelorette parties, who act as if the world revolves around them?
I took a picture of the sign, and my daughter, Lucy, read it aloud. “So they don’t want kids?” she asked. “Nope, I guess not,” I replied. “But why not?” she wondered. “Well, kids can be kind of loud and distracting,” I admitted. “Yeah, we are!” she said with a big laugh, one that echoed through the corridor.
Walking away, I couldn’t shake off my annoyance. Sure, I understand the logic behind these “no kids” policies. Kids can be disruptive, and not everyone wants to deal with the chaos that often accompanies them. Much like how some couples prefer a kid-free wedding, many diners seek a peaceful meal without the interruption of a toddler’s tantrum. As parents, we often just want to enjoy a quiet meal without the constant reminders of our parenting duties.
But isn’t it a bit hypocritical? Yes, kids can be a handful — especially mine! But often, it’s the adults who create the real disruptions. It’s not just the kids who can be whiny; it’s also the adults who complain about the noise or who believe their own behavior is charming when it’s really not. It’s not just crying babies that disturb the peace; it’s the loud and obnoxious signs that outright ban children.
If you don’t want kids around, that’s perfectly fine. Just try to keep it classy — because you may well be the distraction yourself.
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In summary, while “no kids” policies can be understandable, the way they are communicated can sometimes come off as a bit harsh. It’s important to remember that adults can be just as distracting, if not more so, than children. So let’s keep the conversation respectful and inclusive.
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