Lately, our neighborhood has gained a lot of attention, and as a result, home values have risen. My partner is a carpenter, and with my mild obsession with home renovation shows, we decided to tackle some renovations in our home. Sounds straightforward, right? Well, let’s not forget about toddlers.
Seeing the potential for increased value, we dove into our renovation journey while managing our two spirited kids and a dog. What we envisioned as a fun project quickly turned into a chaotic experience. Honestly, if you’ve ever tried to lay tile with a 3-year-old trying to play chef with mortar or a dog swiping your tools, you know what I mean.
To help other parents considering a “simple” renovation, here’s a list of practical tips to survive the process with little ones around. You’re welcome (and I’m sorry).
- Set Realistic Expectations: Renovating might look easy on TV, but remember, those charming contractors aren’t juggling toddlers while they work. Your project will probably resemble a circus more than a well-edited show.
- Create a Detailed Plan: Just like parenting, having a renovation plan is crucial. Even if things go awry due to a toddler’s tantrum or an unexpected mess, a plan will keep you grounded (maybe with a side of cheese to help manage those unpredictable moments).
- Prepare Backup Plans: Kids can be unpredictable. Always have an alternative strategy ready.
- Budget for Babysitters: Let’s be real—getting anything done is much easier without kids underfoot. If you can, consider hiring someone to watch them, even if it means spending extra.
- Set Aside Money for Stress Relief: Just trust me on this one. You’ll need it.
- Embrace Early Bedtimes: The only time you’ll find peace is after the kids are asleep, so use that time wisely.
- Enjoy a Little Adult Time: When kids resist bedtime, pour yourself a drink and let them sip on something non-alcoholic while you tackle your to-do list.
- Get Kids Their Own Tools: Letting them mimic your work can be fun and educational. They’ll feel involved and learn a bit about construction too.
- Choose Kid-Friendly Paint: Kids are curious and can be a bit destructive. Opt for paint that withstands their adventures.
- Think Twice About Toy Tools: Sometimes, those “kid-friendly” tools can cause more mess than they’re worth.
- Consult Professionals: Don’t hesitate to seek help. DIY can quickly become overwhelming, especially when you have little helpers darting around.
- Seek Medical Advice: If you find yourself stressed out, it might be worth discussing with someone who can provide support.
- Reflect on Your Renovation Goals: Is it really worth the chaos? If your heart isn’t in it for that kitchen island or bathroom closet, maybe it’s time to rethink your priorities.
- Allow Yourself to Feel: It’s okay to feel overwhelmed. Renovations can be tough, even if they are a privilege.
- Pour Another Glass: Sometimes, a glass of wine can work wonders.
- Cry If You Need To: It’s a valid response to stress, especially when you’re knee-deep in renovation chaos.
- Find Your Motivation: A little caffeine mixed with something stronger can help you power through.
- Don’t Abandon Projects: Quitting halfway through can lead to a mess that’s hard to live with. Push through; you’ve got this!
- Seek Inspiration from Shows: Watching renovation shows can spark ideas, but remember, they don’t have kids running around!
- Fake It Till You Make It: Confidence can go a long way. If you act like you know what you’re doing, you might just convince yourself.
- Keep the Wine Flowing: Sometimes, you just need to wave the white flag and enjoy a glass.
- Consider Not Starting: If you know you’re not up for the challenge, it might be best to avoid it altogether.
Renovating with kids can feel like an uphill battle, but it’s sometimes necessary. If you find yourself amidst a construction zone, don’t forget to treat yourself to some wine, chocolate, and maybe even call in the pros for help. Trust me, it’s a worthwhile investment.
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Summary
Renovating as a parent can be a challenge, but with realistic expectations, detailed planning, and a little help, it’s possible to navigate the chaos. Make sure to budget for stress relief and seek professional assistance when needed, all while keeping your little ones engaged and safe.