As we transition through different phases of life, friendships can change. From childhood through college and into the demanding world of parenthood, I have seen many friendships come and go. Yet, I am fortunate to have maintained several close friendships, some lasting over half my life. As my little one approaches their first birthday (yes, I’m still in shock), I want to share some insights with my dear friends who knew me before becoming a parent:
- I appreciate your concern, but sometimes I feel a bit disoriented in this new mom body. If I vent about missing my old size 4 clothes, just offer me some encouraging words—even if we both know it’s a stretch.
- On that note, please refrain from asking for my pre-baby wardrobe. I promise it’ll fit again…eventually.
- If faced with the choice between a social life and sleep, sleep wins every time. The same goes for working out and Netflix—Netflix is usually the victor, especially if you want to join!
- The journey of pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting is a unique blend of beauty and chaos. I’m not comparing my experience to that of soldiers, but I’d be more than happy to share my “war stories” if you’re interested.
- I dream of a night out with margaritas and tacos, but my child still relies on me to sleep, making it hard to leave.
- I adore your dog, but when I’m running on three hours of sleep, please avoid comparing my sleepless nights with your pup’s need to go out.
- Your support for my parenting choices means the world to me, even if you don’t fully grasp them. It’s comforting to have you in my corner when I face judgment for nursing in public or indulging in a glass of wine during pregnancy.
- Thank you for offering to help with the diaper bag; it’s a small gesture that truly makes a difference.
- Sometimes, I miss the days of sleeping in until noon—at this point, I’d gladly take a 9 a.m. wake-up!
- Brunch serves as a wonderful bridge between my pre-parent life and my current one. It’s perfect for three reasons: day drinking, great food, and it’s totally acceptable to sip cocktails around kids.
- I know we sometimes feel distant, but beneath these dark circles and spit-up-stained clothes, I’m still the same person you knew!
- For those of you longing for children but facing hurdles, I have faith that you will be amazing parents whenever your time comes.
- Thank you for babysitting so I can take a quick shower or enjoy ten minutes of uninterrupted scrolling on BuzzFeed and Facebook.
- Becoming a mom has made me feel more confident in myself than ever before! If you ever decide to have kids, I hope you experience this sense of empowerment too.
- I love how you embrace my child with the same warmth and support you have shown me. Your friendship means so much, and it’s heartwarming to see you bond with my little one.
Life is a journey filled with new friendships and farewells. To my friends who have stood by me through this adventure of parenthood, let’s buckle up; it’s going to be a wild ride! For more information on home insemination and useful resources, check out this blog post or visit Make a Mom for expert advice. You can also find great information on pregnancy at Facts About Fertility.
Summary: This article provides heartfelt insights from a new mom to her childless friends, navigating the challenges and joys of parenthood while maintaining friendships. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and support during this life transition.