As a parent, I understand that children absorb lessons from both our words and actions. I often share this insight with other parents and educators, yet I sometimes find it challenging to apply this wisdom in my own life. With three energetic kids aged 6 to 8 and a full-time job as a pediatric occupational therapist, I often feel like I’m balancing multiple roles: cooking dinner, spending quality time with my husband, tackling writing projects, and squeezing in visits with friends.
As the new school year approaches, I’ve decided it’s time for a reset. I’ve created a list of “Parenting Resolutions” that I’m committing to right now, even though there’s no holiday in sight. I hope these resolutions resonate with other parents, caregivers, teachers, and therapists. I’ll be posting this list on my fridge as a daily reminder to stay aligned with my goals.
Here’s my promise to my kids:
- During our focused time together, I won’t check social media, text, or email. We’ll just enjoy playtime.
- After a long workday, I’ll take a deep breath to release stress and greet you with a smile, understanding you’ve had a long day too.
- When we’re at the park or in our backyard, I’ll be right there with you, ready to go down the slide or swing alongside you.
- I’ll do my best not to say that I’m too busy. You should always know that I’m here for you whenever you need me.
- Let’s plan for a weekly dance party—keeping it realistic!
- Although I work during the day, I will make every effort to attend your plays, graduations, and parties because you are my priority.
- If I make a mistake, I will look you in the eyes, apologize, and show you I mean it through my actions, just as I encourage you to do.
- I’ll remind you daily that I love you and share the many reasons why.
- I’ll cherish every smile, word, laugh, and even tantrum, recognizing how quickly you are growing up.
- Each morning and evening, I’ll ensure that all of you know you are special, valued, and loved beyond measure.
These resolutions are a commitment to being present and engaged with my children as they navigate the ups and downs of school life. For more on parenting and related topics, check out this post on home insemination to learn more about family-building options.
In summary, as we transition into the new school year, it’s essential to set intentions that foster connection, love, and support within our families. Let’s strive to be the best role models we can be for our children and create meaningful moments together.