Tomorrow, I will wake up early, embracing the quiet moments of reading, writing, and praying. Then, I’ll sneak downstairs to whip up breakfast before tiptoeing back up to plant kisses on my little ones’ foreheads and point out their schedules on the chalkboard.
Tomorrow, I’ll stroll along the sidewalk, one hand clasped with one child and the other with another, while the third one either trails behind or races ahead, depending on his mood. With only two hands for three kids, it can get tricky. Tomorrow, I’ll take my time as we head to the school just half a mile away, where I’ll leave all three of them for the day.
A New Chapter Begins
This year marks the start of kindergarten for one of my babies, joining 125 others as he steps out into the world. Despite having done this twice before, it doesn’t get any easier. I’ll find myself among other parents at the school entrance, watching as my little one walks away into a world that isn’t shaped by my rules or my protection. This world can be unpredictable, frightening, and heartbreaking.
It’s true that as this day approached, tensions at home rose, and my partner and I exchanged looks that conveyed our eagerness for school to begin. Yet deep down, I know I don’t mean it, because the start of school means they’ll be away from my constant encouragement and care. They’ll never be away from my love, of course.
The Last Day Together
Today, the boys have climbed onto my lap, sensing the significance of this last day together at home. Their cuddles whisper a frantic plea to keep them close: They can’t go. I can’t let them go. What if they don’t fit in? What if they don’t bond with their teacher? What if stepping outside our safe haven shatters their spirit or confidence?
Tonight, I will wander through our home, my fingers brushing against their backpacks hanging on hooks. I’ll peek into their rooms, admiring their sleeping faces—so big yet still so small—and I will cry, pray, and hope that this year will be a good one. I hope they realize how important they are to me, to their friends, and to the world, just as they are.
The Pain of Letting Go
While I can tell them this every day, they must discover it for themselves, away from home, in the world. I understand this, yet letting go isn’t easy. I know the pain of heartbreak, and I want to shield my boys from it. I know what it feels like to be defeated and the sting of cruelty; I don’t want them to experience that.
It may seem trivial, but this is part of growing up—the heartaches, the disappointments. Don’t I want them to mature? Don’t I want them to become self-reliant? Yes, absolutely. But at the same time, it feels so hard to accept. Just yesterday, they were newborns, and I was learning how to be a mother. Just yesterday, they needed me for everything—from bathing to bedtime.
Where did the time go? Where did my baby go? Now they stand tall, eager to take this leap into the world, and I am left grieving. What do I do with this grief? I know I will break down just outside their rooms, listening to their soft breaths, feeling the distance grow.
A New Chapter Awaits
This is merely one of many steps they will take. I recognize this gradual journey of independence, yet it feels abrupt, as if we weren’t ready for this moment. Tomorrow, I’ll guide them into this new chapter, leaving them in a classroom where they will interact with peers who can choose kindness or cruelty at a moment’s notice, and they’ll navigate this new terrain without me.
We’ll pause just outside the school doors for pictures, capturing this monumental first day. They’ll beam with pride, and I’ll tear up with pride too because they are still my babies—always will be. As we enter the classrooms, two of them will be seasoned veterans, while the youngest will glance back at me, his eyes asking, “Are you sure?” I’ll have to respond with a reassuring gaze, even if I’m not completely convinced.
He’s ready to embrace this independence, ready to step into the world, ready to grow and learn beyond my reach. It’s painful because he’s still that little one I comforted during sleepless nights. He’s still the little boy who learned to climb before he could walk, and I still stand at the bottom, arms open, hoping he won’t fall.
Ready to Soar
Yet, I’ll let him go. I’ll allow him to enter that classroom and meet his teacher, even if he can’t remember her name just yet. I’ll walk away, hand in hand with my partner, who understands my heartache, and we’ll return home to a house that feels emptier without him.
I let him go because I know he’s ready to test the wings we’ve nurtured. He may stumble, and I’ll be there to mend his wounds, but with each experience, he’ll become stronger. He’ll find friendships, learn new games to play during recess, and grow to love his teacher. He will be just fine.
He is more capable and courageous than I can even fathom.
Tonight, I’ll tiptoe into his room for one last look, one last touch, one last gentle kiss on his lashes, before retreating back to my own room. Tomorrow is a big day—his first flight into the world. And I’ll be there, always, with tears of pride and a heart that aches.
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Conclusion
In summary, tomorrow marks a significant milestone as my child embarks on a journey toward independence, and while it’s a bittersweet moment filled with love and apprehension, I know he is ready to soar.