Pregnancy can be an overwhelming journey, especially after experiencing a loss. The pain of losing a child—whether during pregnancy or shortly after—is a heartache that many find difficult to articulate. It creates a special kind of void, and embracing a new pregnancy can stir up a whirlwind of emotions that are challenging to navigate.
While some individuals prefer to focus solely on their current pregnancies and leave behind the memories of their past losses, others find solace in commemorating the baby they loved and lost. There’s no universally correct way to cope with a pregnancy following loss. For those who wish to honor their little one in a physical form, the concept of a “rainbow baby” can be profoundly moving.
“I hadn’t come across the term ‘rainbow baby’ until this photoshoot,” photographer Lily Harper shared with the community at Birth Without Fear. “Sarah opened her heart to me, sharing the story of her first child, whom she lost. As she prepares to welcome her second child, she wanted to pay tribute to the precious life she once carried.”
Having faced three miscarriages myself, I understand how those memories can still sting, even now that I’m blessed with two healthy children. For a while, I found myself pushing those feelings of grief aside, feeling grateful for my blessings while being aware of others’ struggles with infertility. However, it’s essential to acknowledge your experiences. We don’t need to erase the memory of the babies we’ve lost. This poignant image captures that acknowledgment: yes, that baby existed. There is both loss and beauty ahead.
“Of course, I felt the weight of the tragedy, but I couldn’t help but marvel at this beautiful keepsake,” Lily reflects. “A rainbow baby is a child conceived after a miscarriage, stillbirth, or loss. This term has empowered parents to share their experiences of grief and the joys that followed.”
“After the storm, there’s a rainbow.”
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In summary, recognizing the existence of lost babies while celebrating new life is a beautiful way to navigate the complexities of pregnancy after loss. There’s no right or wrong way to honor these experiences, but sharing them can foster healing and connection.