Dear Working Mom,
You’re doing an incredible job, and you deserve to hear that. The reality of being away from your kids can be tough. It is, in fact, one of the hardest challenges we face. But trust me, I understand you, because I am right there with you.
The “Mom Guilt” is real and so many of us feel it. Do my kids know how much I love them? Am I spending enough time with them? Am I giving them the attention they need? Am I causing lasting emotional scars?
You are not alone, Working Mom. There are countless women out there just like you—strong, dedicated, and hardworking moms striving to provide for their families while also seeking a bit of joy for themselves. I know it can feel like a losing battle. When you excel at work, it can seem like you’re failing at home, and every time you step away from your children, it feels like a choice between that obligation and seeing them that day. You yearn for more “me time,” but instead, it often feels like the only time you get alone is during your commute. You crave moments with your kids while also wishing for bedtime to arrive so you can tackle the chores that await you. You’re in constant motion from dawn till dusk, wishing for longer days.
I know that work isn’t always a choice for everyone, Mama. Some women have the calling to be stay-at-home moms, while others find fulfillment in their careers. Both paths are valid, and there’s no shame in wanting both a career and a family. But many of you are in a position where you have to work, and I understand how that can feel stifling. You might be yearning for a different situation—one where you can meet your financial obligations, spend quality time with your kids, and find happiness.
You’re not alone during those frantic school drop-offs, hoping traffic doesn’t throw off your schedule. You’re not alone when you use your limited vacation time to care for a sick child, or when your heart aches as you send them to school under the weather because you’ve run out of time off. You’re not alone in choosing store-bought cupcakes for class parties instead of homemade ones because time is tight (and remember, they don’t know the difference!). You’re not alone when you fight back tears at morning drop-off, feeling the tug of your child’s sadness while also secretly hoping for a moment of “peace” at work (and we know there’s no such thing).
You’re not alone when you wonder if your little one prefers the nanny to you—they don’t. You’re not alone when you scramble to manage spit-up on your clothes while toting a breast pump and downing your third cup of coffee just to make it through the day. You’re not alone when you scroll through your phone, longing to witness every milestone, but missing out on some of them. You’re not alone questioning whether you’re doing enough. Just remember—you are enough, Working Mom.
You’re not alone in the daily struggle of balancing groceries, cooking, cleaning, laundry, errands, and maintaining a home while also working and cherishing time with your kids. It can feel impossible to unwind when there’s always more to do. A mother’s work is never done, and you know that better than anyone.
But you’re not alone in the joy you give to your children every day—engaging them, comforting them, laughing and crying with them, teaching them right from wrong. You do this all the time, Mama. You kiss boo-boos, scare away monsters, sing silly songs, and read bedtime stories, even if you skip a few pages to get to the end faster. You treasure your time with them and express your love at every chance.
You are crafting the world for your kids, shaping who they will become by demonstrating that it’s possible to balance work and family, though it often feels like a juggling act. You are a world-builder. Yes, sacrifices are made along the way, but your children know you care deeply, and they learn from your example every single day. One day, they will understand that everything you do—whether it’s out of desire or necessity—is ultimately for their benefit.
I’ve heard it gets easier as our children grow, and while these days can be tough, they are also some of the best. Let’s navigate this journey together.
We are exceptional mothers, Working Mom. We’re giving it our all. We’ve got this.
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Summary
This heartfelt letter to working moms acknowledges the unique challenges they face while juggling careers and family life. It emphasizes the shared experiences of guilt and struggle, while also celebrating the love and effort they put into their roles as mothers.
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