Aging is a fact of life, and I’ve come to terms with it. As I approach my 42nd birthday later this year, I feel a sense of pride in my journey—after all, it means I get to invest more in comfy footwear and vitamins rather than late-night sushi runs. While it might seem odd, the signs of aging have caught me off guard in a big way. I’m talking about waking up with aches and pains that I could have sworn weren’t there when I went to sleep.
Instead of feeling down about it, I find myself amused by these changes. Why should I sulk over something completely natural? Bring on the wrinkles, bunions, and early nights! (Just not too quickly; I’ve noticed I get a bit dizzy if I stand up too fast these days.)
Here are eight signs of aging that have sneaked up on me that I’m surprisingly okay with:
- High Heels Are a Thing of the Past
I used to adore high heels, even during my daily commute in New York City. Fast forward to a recent doctor visit for foot pain, and I learned I have plantar fasciitis and a bunion. I might have shed a tear looking at my once-beloved shoe collection, but hey, comfort is key now. - Sharing Aging Stories
Gone are the days when I shied away from discussing skin changes or random aches. Now, I find myself happily chatting with the cashier about my newfound mole, laughing together as we swap stories about our bodies as they change. - One Glass of Wine is Plenty
The “old me” could easily enjoy multiple glasses of wine without a second thought. Now, I find that just one glass is sufficient, as the aftermath leaves me with a headache and dry mouth. Cheers to moderation! - Wrinkles vs. Instagram Filters
As a photography enthusiast, I love sharing moments on Instagram. But finding the right filter to mask my wrinkles has become a challenge. I’m learning to embrace my natural look and post pictures without any filters. After all, I’m not 20 anymore, and that’s okay. - 9 p.m. Bedtime is Totally Fine
I used to stay up until the wee hours, but now I relish my early bedtimes. A Friday night out now means returning home by 10:30 p.m., and I wouldn’t trade my cozy bed for anything. - What the Heck is THAT?
Lately, I’ve been noticing odd nail ridges and skin spots appearing out of nowhere. It feels like a game of whack-a-mole—treat one issue, and another pops up! My body is certainly reminding me that aging doesn’t come without its quirks. - Infomercials are Surprisingly Enjoyable
I never thought I’d find infomercials entertaining, but my husband and I recently spent an hour captivated by a CD collection ad. Nostalgic tunes from our youth made for a delightful evening, complete with my glass of wine and slippers. - Using “Elder-Speak”
I’ve started using phrases my grandparents used, like “going to hell in a handbasket.” Whether it’s discussing household issues or asking a waiter to refill my coffee, I am fully embracing my inner elder and enjoying every moment of it.
Embracing aging has been a journey, and I can’t complain. I’m happy, healthy, and surrounded by love and support. Yes, I have some new wrinkles, but I’m learning to love the skin I’m in as I step boldly into my 40s.
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Summary
Aging is a natural part of life that brings various changes, from foot problems to early bedtimes. Instead of feeling down about these shifts, I embrace them with humor and acceptance. I appreciate the newfound connections with others regarding our shared experiences and find joy in the little things, like infomercials and a cozy home.