Picture this: the decorations are absolutely stunning, the snacks are disappearing fast, and games are in full swing. At any moment, you can find several hands on the expectant mother’s belly, eagerly waiting for the baby to kick. Yes, it’s a baby shower!
While the new mom might be feeling ecstatic surrounded by loved ones (“Look at all these people supporting me!”) or a bit overwhelmed (“Who are all these folks munching on my cake?”), there’s one thought that seems to unite every guest of honor: “What did everyone get me? … I mean, what did they get for the baby?”
As a woman in her 30s and a mother of two energetic toddlers, I’ve attended more than my fair share of these celebrations. I’ve seen more frills and tiny tuxedos than I ever wanted to. If I could rewind time, I’d definitely tell my past self what gifts are truly valuable. Gifts that will preserve her sanity. Gifts that will provide joy for years to come. Gifts that will make other moms think, “Wow! I wish I had thought of that!”
If you’re expecting—congratulations!—or if you’re attending one of these hormone-filled parties, take my advice and choose a gift from this curated list I’ve put together just for you.
- 3T Clothes. In the early months of a baby’s life, friends and family go all out buying outfits. But when that little bundle turns into a toddler, suddenly no one is gifting a new wardrobe. Plus, as the child grows, the mom will be super busy, so helping her avoid the chaos of clothes shopping with a toddler is a thoughtful gesture.
- A Giant Box of Batteries. Think of all types, from AAA to D. Kids seem to gravitate towards toys that sing, dance, and light up. These toys need batteries, and the last thing a mom wants is her child losing it because their favorite toy ran out of juice just when they need it most.
- A Set of Screwdrivers. Don’t forget that installing batteries in those infuriating toys often requires a variety of screwdrivers. Instead of yet another baby blanket, save the new parents a trip to the hardware store.
- Coffee, Beer, and Booze. Because, let’s face it—motherhood can be a wild ride!
- Subscription to a Streaming Service. The sleepless nights don’t end with infancy; toddlers keep parents up too. Teething, growth spurts, and all those new skills mean kids can be wide awake at odd hours. A streaming service will save the new mom from aimlessly watching infomercials at 3 AM and possibly ordering things she doesn’t need.
- 700 Boxes of Macaroni and Cheese. Because toddlers and their food preferences!
- Three Months of Housecleaning Services. New moms are hit with a wave of emotions and responsibilities. Help her out by taking one item off her plate—cleaning the house.
- Spa Gift Certificate. The key here is to let her know it expires within six months of the baby’s birth. This way, she’ll be encouraged to take some time for herself, because pampering is essential for every new mom.
Take my tips to heart, and whatever you do, please remember this one golden rule: NO MORE BABY BLANKETS. She’s welcoming a child, not stocking up for a home goods store!
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In summary, skip the baby blankets and opt for practical gifts that will genuinely help the new mom navigate her exciting yet challenging journey.