Kids can be messy—just like pets. As someone who has always prided themselves on being tidy, I resisted getting a dog for many years. However, after witnessing my children take on more responsibilities (including attempts to clean up their spills), I finally gave in. A few months ago, we welcomed a little Shih Tzu named Bella into our family, and life has been a whirlwind ever since. It’s been both everything I anticipated and a total surprise.
1. My dog thinks I’m the best.
With all the effort that goes into caring for a dog, I find comfort in knowing Bella prefers my company above everyone else’s. It’s a little rewarding to see her snuggle up next to me instead of my partner on the couch. And those moments when we return home after being gone? When she bolts out of her crate for enthusiastic cuddles with only me? Let’s just say she earns herself some extra treats, while the kids joke that I love Bella more than them.
2. Dogs don’t judge.
While kids might spill the beans about your imperfections—like how long it’s been since your last shower—dogs are a different story. Forget to refill Bella’s water bowl? She’ll wag her tail as if to say “it’s okay, I forgive you.” Too worn out to play fetch? No worries, Bella is happy to play on the living room carpet instead! They never make comments about appearance or anything personal. Truly, dogs are the ultimate companions for busy moms.
3. Each day is a new game of ‘Guess That Stain.’
As a neat freak, this has been a challenge for me. Dogs seem to bring the outside chaos indoors. While anyone can sniff out a little accident, it takes a true detective to figure out the mystery of what that stain on your favorite cushion really is. And as Bella wags her tail nearby while I scrub, it’s hard to stay mad at her adorable face. I definitely didn’t see that coming!
4. Watching your kids bond with a pet is priceless.
As my children grow, I sometimes catch myself daydreaming about how they’d handle a new baby. Having Bella around has given them an opportunity to nurture someone who relies on them, and it warms my heart to see how gently they care for her.
5. Caring for a dog can be more demanding than raising kids.
Don’t get me wrong—parenting is tough and exhausting. But just when you think you can’t handle another tantrum, kids reach a milestone that makes things a bit easier. Pets, however, will always be dependent on us. They won’t learn to fetch their own leashes or fill their own food bowls. And knowing that we’ll likely outlive them adds a bittersweet complexity to the love we feel. It’s a love that mirrors that of a mother and child—intense, overwhelming, and wonderfully confusing.
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In summary, welcoming a dog into your family is a unique experience full of love, challenges, and unexpected joys. From the unending companionship to the daily messes, every moment spent with your furry friend is an adventure worth embracing.