Recently, my partner and I found ourselves in a conversation about starting to save for our children’s college education. While our kids are still young, it’s never too early to think about the future. In 15 years, we won’t simply have $60,000 sitting around for our daughter or another $60,000 for our son. So, we feel the urgency to begin saving.
However, I believe college isn’t a must for everyone. In fact, I think there’s too much pressure on students and parents alike to get their kids into college.
Having a degree doesn’t automatically lead to job security. Many of my former classmates can vouch for this; a four-year degree doesn’t guarantee employment in today’s world, and that’s not how it should have worked in the first place. I expect my children to be self-sufficient when they leave home, but attending college isn’t the only path to achieving that. College should be viewed as an option, not a necessity.
Sure, certain professions, like law, psychology, or medicine, require specific training and education. For these careers, college is essential. But what about those who aspire to be artists, writers, or even car salespeople? These professions bring joy and fulfillment to countless individuals, and you don’t necessarily need a degree to find pride in your work.
Let’s not forget about skilled trades like plumbing and electrical work. Many of these positions require training, but they don’t demand students to go deeply into debt. Options like trade schools or starting out in entry-level positions allow individuals to learn on the job and advance without incurring massive student loans. In fact, some of these trades are more financially rewarding than many traditional college paths.
People often say that a major reason for attending college is the “experience.” But is the experience of dorm life truly worth the burden of significant debt? After high school, you could easily share a small apartment with friends and enjoy a similar experience without the financial stress.
For me, college had its perks. I made lasting friendships, met my partner, and discovered much about myself. Yet, I sometimes wonder if the debt I accrued was worth it. If given the chance to go back, I might have chosen a more affordable route for my education and personal growth. While hindsight is 20/20, it can guide me in supporting my children as they navigate their own career choices.
Ultimately, I will stand by my kids in whatever paths they choose—whether that’s college, trade school, or even pursuing artistic endeavors. My primary desire is for them to find happiness and fulfillment in their lives, because college alone does not guarantee that.
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In summary, while college can provide valuable experiences and education, it is not the only option for a successful life. It’s crucial to support our children in finding their own paths, whether that involves traditional schooling or pursuing hands-on careers.