In a recent conversation, former actress Tina Thompson, known for her role in “High School Days,” shared her thoughts on nursing in public. Her perspective might surprise many, especially given the ongoing discussions about mothers advocating for their right to breastfeed openly. However, it’s essential to acknowledge that the movement for fair treatment of nursing mothers also includes respecting those who value their privacy.
Thompson told Parenting Weekly that she takes a more “reserved” approach to breastfeeding her 9-month-old son, Max. While she advocates for the right of mothers to nurse “wherever they want,” her preference leans toward discretion. “I do what I have to do, but I typically end up in a restroom … and, unfortunately, sitting on a toilet while nursing,” she admitted.
Now, before anyone gets upset, let’s pause for a moment. While it would be great to see all celebrity moms championing the cause of public breastfeeding, it’s perfectly valid for those who feel more comfortable in private. Although the thought of feeding my child in a space that might harbor germs is unsettling, I understand that some moms feel uneasy nursing in front of others.
Thompson emphasized her respect for other mothers’ choices regarding breastfeeding. “I don’t judge women who choose to nurse at a dinner table; it’s just not for me.” The subject of breastfeeding in public is certainly a hot-button issue, with numerous stories emerging about nursing mothers being asked to cover up or relocate. While we rally for those women’s rights, we must also support moms who prefer a more secluded setting.
Ideally, public venues would offer pleasant spaces for mothers to feed their babies, instead of relegating them to restrooms. However, reality isn’t always ideal, and for those who feel uncomfortable being in the spotlight, it’s often a bathroom stall that becomes the only choice.
When I first nursed my child, I would often retreat to my car to avoid feeling self-conscious, which sometimes made it tough for my little one to latch properly. Over time, I grew more confident, but initially, my vehicle was my safe space. While I may not have been actively helping to normalize breastfeeding in public by nursing behind my steering wheel, personal comfort should always come first. Each mother’s choice is intimate and should be respected.
While it’s wonderful to hope for celebrity moms like Thompson to join the ranks of those openly nursing without hesitation, we fully support her wish for privacy. Ultimately, our shared goal is simple: happy, fed babies.
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In summary, every mother should feel empowered to choose how and where to breastfeed, whether in public or behind closed doors. The most important thing is that babies are fed and cared for, regardless of the setting.