I appreciate the intention behind your advice, but honestly, it often feels more frustrating than helpful. If I haven’t explicitly asked for your parenting tips, chances are I’m not looking for them. So, please refrain from telling me to…
- Savor Every Moment Because It Flies By.
Time seems to zoom by once you’re on the other side of any challenging experience. Ask any veteran about their long days during major historical events, and they’ll likely say it felt like a blink. Just like the parents of older kids who keep offering this same line. - Just Chill Out.
Oh sure, let me just relax while my baby screams after 12 hours without a nap. You’ve got this, they say. How about a cup of tea instead? - Sleep When the Baby Sleeps.
The only realistic time for that is during pregnancy, if you can find a comfy spot. So, yeah, not happening. - They’ll Eventually Outgrow It.
Teething? Sure, they’ll grow out of that because they only have 20 teeth. But everything else is a different story! - Parenting Gets Easier.
Nope, that’s a myth. It’s not a gradual downhill slope; it’s a rollercoaster ride. - What a Delightful Age!
Isn’t it just fantastic when they start back-talking, have accidents on the floor, and enter those rebellious teenage years? Sounds like a blast, right? - Keep Trying with Breastfeeding; You’ll Figure It Out.
You can’t force something that just doesn’t fit. Hearing that my baby’s latch will improve was not what I needed. Congrats if yours worked out, but mine didn’t. - You Should Get Out More.
Are you volunteering for babysitting duty? - Connect with Other Parents at Playgroups.
Finding friends at these groups isn’t like picking someone based on a cute sweater. It’s about real chemistry beyond just sharing kids. I did meet some great women, though—like the one who didn’t mind having a drink or two at playgroup. - Be Patient.
Sure, patience is a virtue, but so are integrity and dignity. I lost both the day I had to clean an epic mess that also ended up in my hair while answering the door for UPS.
I know that one day I might find myself spouting some of these lines to new moms, forgetting all the chaos I once faced. I’ll likely say things like “enjoy this time” and “it gets easier” without recalling the sleepless nights.
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Summary: Parenting advice can often feel overwhelming and unhelpful, especially for new moms. Common phrases like “enjoy every moment” or “it gets easier” can be frustrating to hear during challenging times. It’s important to recognize that each parenting journey is unique, and not all advice resonates with everyone.