As the ever-relatable Jessie Spano once lamented, “There’s no time! There’s never any time!” And if she thought high school was a challenge, just wait until you dive into the chaos of motherhood. When you’re surrounded by demanding, whiny little ones who seem to believe you exist solely to cater to their every whim, the concept of “me time” becomes a distant memory. I yearn for the days when I could indulge in my own whims without worrying about whether someone needs mac and cheese or a last-minute potty break. Here’s a list of all the things I would prioritize if only time weren’t so elusive:
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Dive into a Good Book
I crave the luxury of curling up with a book that doesn’t involve illustrations of animals or talking trains. I want a novel filled with rich language and complex characters that I can lose myself in for hours—so much so that I forget to eat and my chair becomes my new best friend. -
Pamper My Eyebrows
Let’s be real: the area above my eyes could use a little TLC. If the light hits just right, I’m pretty sure I can see what looks like two fuzzy caterpillars having a conversation. A little eyebrow waxing would do wonders. -
Binge-Watch a New Series
While I could attempt to binge-watch something on Netflix, the reality of waking up at dawn to a toddler’s cheerful chatter right after the last episode ends makes this a risky endeavor. -
Enjoy a Long Brunch with Friends
I miss those leisurely brunches that stretched into the afternoon, fueled by mimosas and laughter, with no rush to get back home. Nowadays, any outing is inevitably cut short by the looming responsibilities waiting at home. -
Take a Solo Stroll
I fondly remember aimlessly wandering for hours, simply enjoying the fresh air and clearing my mind. Now, every minute is accounted for, and my thoughts are often clouded by the incessant “mom fog.” -
Explore a New Hobby
There’s something to be said for learning new skills, and I’d love to dive into painting or singing. But the time I could spend on these passions often gets swallowed up by household chores. After all, poop stains won’t clean themselves! -
Get Lost in the Internet
The internet is a rabbit hole waiting to be explored. One moment, I’m learning how to clean grout, and the next, I’m knee-deep in celebrity gossip—only to realize it’s midnight and I’ve wasted precious hours I could have used for self-care. -
Cook an Elaborate Meal for My Partner
Who has time for a three-course meal? With just 30 minutes to whip something up, my culinary dreams of gourmet meals often end with toast as the appetizer. -
Reconnect with Distant Friends
I miss those heart-to-heart conversations with friends from my past. Social media keeps us connected, but nothing beats a genuine chat. However, every time I try to call, the kids seem to sense it and orchestrate a mini crisis. -
Reflect on My Life’s Purpose
Is there more to life than just work and motherhood? I often find myself pondering these questions, but they vanish in a flurry of daily chaos. Meanwhile, the oven timer goes off, pulling me back to reality.
Someday, when my kids are grown, I’ll be able to indulge in these desires. Until then, I’ll keep this list pinned to my vision board as a reminder of what I’m looking forward to.
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Summary:
In the whirlwind of motherhood, it can feel impossible to carve out time for oneself. From reading a captivating book to enjoying brunch with friends or exploring new hobbies, the longings for personal time are many. While these indulgences may have to wait, keeping a list serves as a reminder of the joys that await in the future.