In my child’s previous school, he consistently earned the majority of academic accolades. His dedication, focus, and ability to complete his assignments effectively led to these achievements. Importantly, I have never had to push him to do his homework or study for exams. Yes, he is indeed quite intelligent.
During the awards ceremony, the principal made an unexpected announcement: “As we present the awards, please refrain from clapping or making noise. This is not a sporting event; we will wait until the end for a brief applause before returning to class.” I was taken aback. My hands instinctively fell to my lap, and a wave of sadness washed over me.
For my son, this ceremony represents his version of a sporting event. It is his time to shine. School is where he excels and dedicates his efforts. Unlike winning a trophy for a basketball championship, he is recognized for achieving straight As or having the highest GPA in his grade. While he could join debate teams or science clubs, if those activities don’t resonate with him, school remains his arena.
Why the Disparity?
Why is an academic achievement treated differently from a sports victory? Shouldn’t we express the same enthusiasm for a child with exceptional intellect as we do for one with remarkable athletic abilities? The student who diligently studies deserves recognition just like the one who consistently practices their sport.
As the principal concluded his remarks, I noticed the atmosphere shift; parents tucked their hands away, and the energy in the bleachers, filled with students, visibly deflated. Each student walked up in silence to accept their awards, returning to their seats without fanfare. Occasionally, a parent would break the silence with an enthusiastic clap, but I, like my son, chose to remain quiet as he walked down the bleachers.
This moment reminded me of his first day in kindergarten. He was so tall that he was placed at the end of the line. At the end of the year, during graduation, he was still the tallest, clutching a paper plate award. Each child proudly displayed their accolades, while his read: “Enjoys playing with friends and cars.” It felt inadequate; it could have easily stated, “Enjoys reading quietly and building intricate Lego structures” or “Future engineer.”
Some awards may seem trivial, I understand that, but there are many that reflect genuine effort and achievement. Why is it that we do not celebrate scholars with the same vigor as athletes?
The Importance of Recognition
“Why?” was the question my son posed when I advised him to keep his certificates. “Place them in your binder. You earned them, and I am proud of you.” He reluctantly retrieved the binder filled with his awards. I hope that he will one day rediscover that binder—perhaps buried in a box I’ll hand him upon his college graduation—and feel a mixture of nostalgia and pride. Those awards hold as much significance as an MVP trophy in sports.
It’s crucial to cheer for academic achievers. Failing to do so sends the message that their hard work is undervalued and that society does not appreciate the skills and talents these students contribute. For further insights on parenting and education, you may find our other posts helpful, such as those available at intracervicalinsemination.com/contact-us/.
Conclusion
In summary, it is essential to foster an environment where academic success is celebrated just as vigorously as sports achievements. This not only encourages students to excel in their studies but also affirms the value of intellectual pursuits in our society.