Dear Children,
If I were to unexpectedly pass away, perhaps during a challenging yoga class, I want to share ten crucial life lessons that I hope you will carry with you.
With love,
Mom
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Avoid Being Arrogant.
The most vital piece of advice is to steer clear of arrogance. An arrogant person believes they’re superior to others and behaves without considering the feelings of those around them. Think about it: individuals like notorious dictators or even that classmate who excluded you from her birthday party exemplify this. You will encounter such people throughout your life—at school, on your sports teams, or even at family gatherings.
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Recognize That You Don’t Know Everything.
While some may seem inherently unkind, often their behavior is shaped by their environment or upbringing. When someone treats you poorly, remember that you don’t know their story. Extend compassion and, if they continue to be unkind, it’s okay to move on.
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Stand Firm Against Bullying.
If a bully tries to intimidate you, don’t hesitate to defend yourself. While it’s often advised to use words instead, sometimes a firm response is necessary. Politely but assertively warn them of the consequences if they continue their behavior, and if it persists, stand up for yourself.
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Avoid Absolute Statements.
Be cautious about declaring what you would never do. Life’s circumstances can change us in ways we might not expect. It’s important to approach others’ choices with an open mind, as you may not fully understand their situations.
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Steer Clear of Drugs.
Consider the outcomes of those who have made poor choices regarding drug use. The stories of many famous individuals serve as cautionary tales. Prioritize your health and well-being.
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Check Yourself Before Leaving.
Before you exit a restroom, ensure your appearance is presentable—check your teeth, shoes, and zipper. A true friend will discreetly notify you if something is amiss, so be that friend to others.
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Share Opportunities.
In sports and life, pass the ball to those who might need it most. Everyone deserves a chance to shine, regardless of their skill level. It fosters a sense of belonging and teamwork.
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Be Yourself with Friends.
Surround yourself with people who accept you as you are. Embrace your quirks, mistakes, and even your less glamorous moments. Authentic connections are built on acceptance and understanding.
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Dance When Asked.
If someone invites you to dance, take the leap. It requires courage to extend that invitation, and a simple dance can lead to unforgettable memories.
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Listen to Your Elders.
We possess wisdom from our experiences, both good and bad. Our journeys have taught us valuable lessons, and sometimes you can learn from our mistakes and triumphs.
Now, I must prepare for my yoga class, but always remember these lessons.
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In summary, the essence of life can be distilled into a few key principles that will guide you through challenges and interactions with others. Embrace compassion, authenticity, and resilience.