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Mom Squad Objectives
By Lucy Thompson
March 6, 2023
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When I was young, single, and embracing a carefree lifestyle, I thought having a close-knit group of friends was essential. Yet, that perspective shifted dramatically with motherhood. The bond with your Mom Squad surpasses even the most popular social circles. While your #MomSquad may involve fewer high-fashion selfies and more candid moments of chaos, the connection is invaluable.
Once you become a parent, having a supportive group of fellow moms transitions from a desire to an absolute necessity. It can mean the difference between contemplating a late-night baking disaster with a hand mixer and sharing a humorous photo of your predicament with a friend who totally understands. She might even respond with her own relatable chaos—like constructing 250 Ants on a Log while also juggling her own set of challenges.
Mom Squads inherently grasp the complexities of modern motherhood. Your own mother, despite her best intentions, may not fully comprehend the pressures of today’s parenting landscape. Today’s moms navigate through a digital age filled with competitive Pinterest boards, perfectly curated Instagram feeds, and blogs offering advice on everything from creating a stylish capsule wardrobe to managing family schedules. Honestly, the only “Barney” I’m currently involved with is a DVD that I’ve forgotten to return to the library.
Partners often don’t grasp the nuances either. They may not understand the struggle of balancing work, household chores, and self-care, let alone the intricacies of postpartum recovery or the emotional turmoil of body image after childbirth. They aren’t privy to the endless discussions about handling the “perfect mom” at school events or how to disguise coffee stains on your favorite jeans because laundry day feels insurmountable.
Mom Squads offer more than just companionship during moments of chaos. They provide a nonjudgmental space to vent feelings, share laughs, and navigate the everyday challenges that come with parenting. They redefine laundry piles as “decorative art” because, let’s face it, they have their own piles too.
These squads serve as informal therapy, offering support that feels essential, especially during times like potty training. They don’t expect perfection; if you’re short on snacks for a playdate, they’ll bring extras. If your home resembles a tornado aftermath, they’ll lend a hand in tidying up. On New Year’s Eve, they’ll show up with family and drinks, ready to celebrate with you in the midst of toddler tantrums.
Mom Squads allow you to express frustrations about feeling left out as childless friends post glamorous vacation photos. Meanwhile, you’re navigating a less-than-fabulous outing to Disney on Ice, where adult beverages were strictly prohibited. Next time, your Mom Squad will join in, because no one should endure these experiences alone.
They remind you that you’re still an individual, even if part of you is currently dealing with a child who’s declaring, “I’m vomiting boogers!” They understand that sometimes leggings are the only acceptable pants, and that serving boxed mac and cheese can be a valid dinner option. Plus, when your partner gets to use the bathroom in peace, it can lead to some resentment.
Most importantly, while your child-free friends are enjoying late dinners, your Mom Squad is ready to unwind with you in pajamas, sharing cheap wine and laughter, free from interruptions from little ones.
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In summary, Mom Squads are an essential lifeline for modern mothers. They provide a supportive community, a place to share experiences, and a reminder that you’re not alone in the challenges of parenting.