As I sifted through the headlines last week, my thoughts were consumed by the vital role mothers play on this planet. The image of a small child, 3-year-old Alan Kurdi, washed ashore struck a deep chord within me—an image that resonates with every ounce of our humanity and screams, “This cannot continue.”
Before motherhood, such a tragedy would have tugged at my heartstrings. Now, as a mother, the weight of such loss is almost unbearable. I wish I could say I can’t fathom it, but the truth is, every mother can imagine that harrowing scenario—desperately trying to protect your child and failing.
Yet, we must recognize this isn’t a new occurrence. The world has witnessed similar heartbreaks repeatedly over millennia, with countless innocent lives lost to the tides of war. This should not be our reality, but it is.
Reflecting on how we arrived at this juncture, I dissect the wars that displace families and claim children’s lives. I see how the image of a drowned child affects us, leading me to this conclusion: ultimately, it will be the mothers who bring an end to our society’s disastrous relationship with conflict and suffering.
No one despises war more than a mother. Throughout history, however, mothers have often been powerless to prevent it. The ongoing cycle of war persists because men and women have never truly been equal in society, politics, or beyond. When women across the globe gain the voice and authority to declare “No more,” when we collectively refuse to sacrifice our children for the sake of power or violence, that will be the turning point.
The roots of extremism lie in ignorance and inequality; mothers are the first educators of the next generation. Without equal power and access to education for women, humanity as a whole suffers. Historically, the vast majority of warfare has been waged under male-dominated power structures.
Let me clarify: I am not disparaging men—I appreciate the contributions they make to our lives. Rather, I critique a system where half of humanity has been silenced while the other half has wielded unchecked power. My faith reminds me that humanity resembles a bird, needing both wings—men and women—to fly. When one wing is clipped, the bird struggles and falters. This is the predicament we face, and it’s why we continue to see such tragedies unfold.
When I contemplate how to make a difference, I acknowledge the urgent needs of those currently suffering. Yet, stepping back reveals that the most sustainable change will come through the empowerment and education of women and girls. This is where the foundation for lasting transformation lies.
“Consider a son reared and trained twenty years by a devoted mother. What sleepless nights and restless, anxious days she has spent! Sacrificing him on the battlefield would be agonizing. Therefore, mothers will not endorse war nor be content with it. When women participate fully in global affairs, war will cease; women will become the barrier against it.” — A wise saying from a notable figure.
We remember the names of children like Alan Kurdi, but there are thousands more whose stories remain untold, each representing a tragic reality. As of June 2015, my hometown of Aleppo has seen nearly 26,000 casualties—equivalent to the entire population of a small city.
As you tuck your children into bed tonight, imagine holding them close, shielding them from the horrors of war, knowing that it may be a futile effort. This is the reality for millions; 22 million people are grappling with this nightmare. Our social media feeds should not be filled with vacation snapshots but should instead reflect the urgent need for humanitarian assistance.
Why is the world silent? Why do governments turn away those who have nowhere to go? The answers may be complex, but they are ultimately irrelevant. What matters is action. If 250,000 Americans were suffering the same fate, the response would surely be different. This is not merely an issue for one group; it is a humanitarian crisis that demands our collective attention.
If you feel compelled to assist but are unsure how, remember that every contribution counts. Yasmin Kayali, co-founder of a supporting organization, stresses that helping doesn’t require vast sums of money. For instance, just $50 a month can feed a family, and a modest yearly donation can place a child in school. Small contributions build towards significant change, rescuing families from despair.
If financial aid isn’t an option for you, consider signing a petition urging the American government to welcome more refugees. Our help is crucial, and we must unite as mothers across the globe in this fight for humanity.
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In summary, as we reflect on our shared responsibility as mothers, let us unite to bring about the change we desperately need in the world.
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