As we drove to celebrate our seven-year wedding anniversary, I found myself reflecting on the journey we’ve shared. Between managing a newborn and our spirited toddler, Penelope, I realized I hadn’t even picked up a card. Feeling a bit guilty, I opened my “Notes” app and started jotting down thoughts about my husband, Mark. He might have assumed I was lost in my phone, but I knew I needed to express my feelings during our dinner. Despite being last-minute, these sentiments were genuine.
When we arrived at the restaurant, I shared my list with him. Here are seven reasons I deeply admire Mark after seven wonderful years of marriage:
- You Enhance Everything: Today, after you ran some errands in my car, I noticed how immaculate and fragrant it was thanks to the lavender air freshener you knew I’d appreciate. Your attention to detail makes your love for cleanliness endearing and motivates me to keep things organized, even if I occasionally want to rearrange things just to tease you.
- You Make Me Laugh: Amid the whirlwind of our busy lives, you still have the ability to make me laugh as hard as you did on our first date, that night at Bella Restaurant when I nearly lost it from laughter. I knew you were special when you effortlessly kept me giggling, no matter the situation.
- The Kids Adore You: I love witnessing the joy you bring to our children. Little Lucas may be just a newborn, but I can see the spark in his eyes when he sees you. Penelope, too, absolutely treasures her time with you, and it warms my heart to see the connection you both share.
- Your Passionate Spirit: It’s your vibrant energy that first attracted me to you, and it perfectly balances my more introverted nature. While I often find myself overwhelmed when you come home energized and eager to chat about your day, I appreciate your enthusiasm. Please keep sharing those stories with me.
- We Support Each Other: The last couple of years have thrown us challenges like job shifts, unemployment, and new parenthood, and yet, we manage to lift each other up like a seesaw. When one of us is down, the other finds a way to elevate us back up.
- Your Dedication: Your work ethic is inspiring. Even when you seem to be just taking a break, I know your mind is buzzing with ideas. You recognize when you need to take a step back, and you listen when I remind you to slow down, showing your remarkable understanding.
- Thoughtfulness in Our Relationship: No matter the occasion, you always add a personal touch to our celebrations without making it about extravagance. I love reciprocating this thoughtfulness, and it means a lot to me that you appreciate my impromptu notes, like this one.
As I concluded my note, I noticed the emotion in his eyes. It reminded me that sometimes, the simplest expressions can convey our deepest feelings. It’s not about the glittery cards but the heartfelt words we share, whether written on a fancy card or typed in a hurry.
For now, what truly matters is that we continue to express how much we mean to each other. In the future, perhaps we’ll return to those shiny cards—but for now, it’s the love that counts.
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In summary, taking the time to express appreciation for your partner can strengthen your bond and bring joy amid the chaos of life. Whether through grand gestures or simple notes, it’s the love that truly matters.