As a mother expecting her second child while raising a young toddler, I often reflect on my daily experiences at home. At times, it feels as though I am accomplishing very little. Today, for instance, I prepared a few meals that had been untouched for days, explored a variety of colorful children’s books, and washed numerous hands, dishes, and loads of laundry. I spent time watching an inquisitive little monkey on television alongside my equally curious 2-year-old daughter. There were moments when I lost my patience, and I answered the never-ending question of “Why?” with surprising creativity and even more resilience than I thought I had. I said goodbye and perhaps lingered a moment too long.
In this current phase of young motherhood, my body, mind, and spirit are deeply connected to my children in a way that is both consuming and fulfilling. Motherhood elicits a wide range of emotions, providing me with a kaleidoscope of feelings in response to the unpredictable nature of life. My aspirations and dreams are now intertwined with those of my little ones.
Most days, my hair is thrown up in a messy bun, and my beauty routine is focused on creating the illusion of restful sleep, yet I am acutely aware that this fleeting period is passing swiftly. There were times when I genuinely wondered if I would ever enjoy uninterrupted sleep again. The answer is yes; this chapter of motherhood will eventually transition into another phase.
I know that one day, I will look back nostalgically at these moments and share with new mothers that “it goes by so fast,” as they cradle their infants. There will come a time when I will have more opportunities for self-care; I may trade my messy bun for a more stylish look. My concerns will shift from potty training to more complex issues.
Acknowledging that just as seasons change, so too do the stages of my life provides me comfort. The everyday challenges of raising young children are temporary. On certain days, I need to remind myself to slow down and appreciate all the little things I may overlook.
Today, I experienced the world through my toddler’s eyes. I was present to listen, protect, and reassure. I held tiny hands, exchanged kisses, and shared hugs. I smiled, laughed, and even sang a silly song more than once. Today, I was simply a mom, and that was more than sufficient.
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In summary, early motherhood is a unique and transformative chapter filled with challenges and rewards. Each moment spent with young children is invaluable, and while this season may be demanding, it is also a time of profound joy and growth.