Recently, I came across a trend where adults enroll in “preschool” classes to reconnect with their youthful selves. They engage in activities like coloring, finger painting, and show-and-tell—all for a hefty price of up to $1,000. While this may seem unconventional, I propose a more practical approach: allow me to borrow your child for an evening while I enjoy a nice dinner and cocktails with my partner.
The real reason behind my disbelief is the alarming number of adults who exhibit childish behavior—specifically, poor manners. This subset of adults would greatly benefit from a preschool-style refresher course. Instead of indulging in sensory play, here are some essential lessons they need to revisit:
- Cover Your Mouth When You Cough
I have witnessed multiple instances in recent weeks where individuals cough indiscriminately in crowded spaces as we approach flu season. In one incident, a woman coughed directly in the direction of a newborn, prompting a visceral reaction from me. Basic hygiene practices should be a priority, especially in public settings. - Clean Up After Yourself
Rewarding yourself for tidying up, perhaps with an M&M or a simple song, can foster responsibility. While I may not be the tidiest at home, I believe it’s crucial to maintain cleanliness in public. Leaving a mess for others to handle is inconsiderate. I once observed a middle-aged individual sweeping muffin crumbs onto the floor, which was simply unacceptable. - Line Up Single File
When navigating public spaces, it’s essential to maintain order. Avoid spreading out horizontally across sidewalks, particularly when it disrupts the flow of foot traffic. Let’s treat our surroundings with respect and consideration for others who may be in a hurry. - Keep Your Hands to Yourself
This rule cannot be overstated. Unsolicited touching of others, especially infants, is unacceptable. New parents are particularly protective of their children, and it’s crucial to respect their space and boundaries. - Say Please and Thank You
These expressions of gratitude and politeness are fundamental social skills. Failure to use them should result in an unmet request. Additionally, an apology, when warranted, should be sincere. Understanding and practicing empathy is key to social interactions. - Consider How Your Actions Affect Others
Empathy appears to be a lost art. Reflect on how your actions may impact others, particularly in situations where assistance or kindness is needed. A little consideration can go a long way. - No Pushing
The lack of manners displayed by some adults can be shocking, especially when it affects children. I witnessed parents pushing others aside at a community event to get ahead, which sets a poor example for younger generations. - Focus on Your Own Actions
Distractions can lead to mistakes. Rather than fixating on what others are doing, concentrate on your own conduct. This will promote a more positive environment for everyone involved.
These eight straightforward guidelines serve as a foundation for respectful and considerate behavior. Feel free to share this list with anyone who could use a reminder.
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In conclusion, reinforcing these basic manners could significantly enhance social interactions and foster a more considerate society.