By: Alex Thompson
Recently, I took my 10-year-old daughter, Mia, to see the iconic Hollywood sign. On clear days, it’s visible from our home, and we have often discussed hiking up there. We had two options: a straightforward, well-marked trail frequented by tourists, or a more challenging route that involved two miles of rocky terrain and a steep elevation gain of 1,000 feet. We opted for the latter. During the hike, the rocky path led us along a ridge with a 300-foot drop on one side, so I ensured Mia stayed close.
We’ve become more adept at navigating these kinds of adventures together. I’ve grown more patient, and she rarely gets upset anymore. Despite her naturally adventurous spirit, bravery requires practice. Therefore, every few weeks, we embark on an outing to push our limits. This time, it was the rigorous trail to the Hollywood sign. In the past, we’ve explored the Grand Canyon, canoed through whitewater rapids, and snorkeled alongside leopard sharks (which was an interesting experience).
While it might be easier and safer to stay in and watch movies or play video games, I believe it’s crucial for children to engage in adventures. The risks of a mundane childhood, devoid of challenges, could lead to an unprepared adulthood. Sure, there are potential dangers, but that’s the reality of many meaningful experiences. For my kids, the best way to discern between worthwhile risks and those best avoided is through practice.
After our hike, Mia excitedly shared photos with her friends, some of whom were astonished by the cliff’s edge. She remarked, “Adventures are worth the mishaps.” Although it seems she may not fully grasp the depth of that sentiment, I appreciate that her thinking is evolving. She’s starting to recognize the rewards that come from such experiences. Over time, she’ll understand the character-building aspects of these endeavors. While our outings primarily focus on physical challenges, they also cultivate a different kind of courage.
Not every challenge Mia will encounter in life will require physical strength. The most significant tests will likely be moral in nature. I want her to be equipped not only to face physical dangers but also to display bravery in her interactions with others. I feel immense pride when she climbs a cliff or rides a big wave, but my greatest joy comes when she demonstrates courage through kindness. For a 10-year-old, that could mean inviting a new student to join her at lunch, which she has done.
As she matures, standing up for others will involve far greater risks. I hope she never faces such dire situations, like confronting a hostile crowd or defending innocent lives in a conflict zone. Ideally, her most significant moral challenges would involve writing thoughtful articles for the local paper or advocating for inclusive literature in her school library. Yet, I know Mia is compassionate and will instinctively help those in need, wherever that path may lead.
This is why we practice courage. One day, Mia will need to draw upon the reservoir of bravery we’ve built together. In those moments, she’ll discover just how profound that well of courage is. And perhaps, if I’ve done my job well, she will remember my guidance as we navigate past the cliffs toward that iconic sign over the next ridge.
For more insights on parenting and the importance of bravery, you can explore our privacy policy here.
In the context of family planning and overcoming challenges, you might find valuable resources such as the Cryobaby At-Home Insemination Kit and MedlinePlus, which provides excellent guidance on pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary
This article reflects on how a father teaches his daughter about bravery through outdoor adventures and moral challenges. By engaging in physically demanding activities, they both learn valuable life lessons about courage and kindness. The father hopes that these experiences will prepare her for the moral complexities she may face in adulthood.