Dear Future Kids,
As I pen this letter, you are just toddlers—one and a half and three years old. Yet, you both navigate our tablet with more skill than I do. You belong to a generation immersed in digital technology.
Reflecting on my own childhood, it’s hard to imagine life without the myriad apps and gadgets that entertain and inform you. We didn’t have smartphones or Wi-Fi back then. Our home phones were tethered to the wall, and if we needed to make a call while out, we relied on “pay phones,” which are now nearly extinct.
There was no Google or Siri to provide instant answers. Back then, if we were curious, we ventured to the library, sifting through card catalogs and encyclopedias—an actual hunt for knowledge. GPS? That was a dream; we had to ask for directions or wrestle with cumbersome paper maps.
I can only speculate what technology will look like by the time you read this. Perhaps you’ll be busy managing an uprising of robots, but no matter what the future holds, I want to share some advice about navigating a world dominated by instant information:
Unplug When Needed
There’s a time for phones, video games, and binge-watching shows, but moderation is key. You won’t cherish the memory of a trending social media post as much as the moments you create with loved ones.
Prioritize Genuine Connections
While it’s common for teens to have smartphones, I’ve seen groups of friends who sit together, yet are engrossed in their screens, missing out on real conversations. Building these skills is vital for your social development.
Practice Good Manners
Treat others as you wish to be treated. A simple smile and a kind word can make someone’s day. Remember to say “please” and “thank you,” and always be respectful.
Accountability Online
The anonymity of the internet can tempt people to say hurtful things they wouldn’t say face-to-face. A good rule is to refrain from negative behavior, whether in-person or online.
Be Your Own Advocate
Steer clear of toxic online environments, such as comment sections filled with negativity. It’s crucial to stand up for your beliefs, but discern which conflicts are worth engaging in.
Make Smart Choices
Consider the long-term effects of your actions. Be cautious about what you share online, and remember, don’t take inappropriate photos—once shared, you can’t control where they end up.
Cultivate a Love for Reading
Seek out books, especially the printed kind, and read even when it’s not appealing. Eventually, you’ll find a book that sparks your passion; nurture that love for literature.
Develop Strong Writing Skills
In a world filled with shorthand and emojis, effective communication remains essential. Mastering spelling, grammar, and vocabulary will help you earn respect. Please, reserve “u” for texts.
Explore Your Passions
Discover what brings joy to your life. Engage with music, art, and friendships that uplift you.
Embrace Adventure
Spend time outdoors and explore the world. Don’t just view photos—experience those places firsthand. Feel the earth beneath your feet and appreciate your smallness in the grand scheme of things.
While technology enables instant access to answers, I hope it doesn’t stifle your curiosity. Engage in real experiences and embrace the moment. With any luck, perhaps teleportation or flying cars will be a reality by then.
With all my love,
Mom