Updated: July 29, 2023
Originally Published: Oct. 8, 2015
From a young age, I had a knack for organization. I could visualize how to declutter and rearrange spaces, which led me to help others tidy their rooms. Even now, as a parent of a creative 3-year-old in our modest 600-square-foot apartment, I maintain a minimalist approach. However, while I was intrigued by Marie Kondo’s The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, I found several points in her method lacking.
1. The Joy Factor
Kondo suggests that every item in your home should spark joy. But what about essential items like medications, receipts, or even a child in the midst of a tantrum? Not everything can or should bring joy.
2. Book Discarding
Kondo argues that most people don’t reread books and should therefore part with them. I, however, frequently revisit my favorite reads and appreciate the history they represent. Moreover, having a variety of books available fosters a reading culture in my family.
3. Old Photos
Kondo dismisses shoeboxes filled with old photographs. However, these boxes can provide delightful surprises and cherished memories during a rainy day at home. Organizing them in a way that allows for some “organized chaos” can enhance joy rather than detract from it.
4. Storage Limitations
Kondo advises against keeping items for potential future use. While it’s true that some things may take up space unnecessarily, the wisdom from my mother resonates: “Living a completely minimalist existence is for rich people.” Replacing items you may need later can be both costly and frustrating.
5. Forgotten Treasures
Kondo asks whether we can genuinely treasure items that are buried away. I have drawers filled with letters, journals, and artwork from my child. Although I may forget what’s in them, rediscovering these items can bring immense joy and nostalgia, illustrating the paradox of memory and sentiment.
While Kondo’s book offers valuable insights into our relationship with possessions, her stringent guidelines may overlook the joy found in the things we choose to keep. For a deeper understanding of the nuances of home organization and related topics, consider resources like CDC’s guide on pregnancy or Make a Mom for boosting fertility. Additionally, you can explore our privacy policy for more information.
In summary, while the KonMari Method has its merits, it may not suit everyone’s lifestyle or values. Embracing a balance between minimalism and sentimental keepsakes can enrich our lives.