Weddings can be a significant financial commitment, and while it’s understandable to feel frustrated about no-shows, charging guests for missed meals is an extreme response. A couple from Minnesota recently made headlines for sending a bill to a guest who did not attend their wedding, demanding payment for the meals that had been reserved for her.
Jessica Johnson received a bill totaling $75.90 for two fish dinners that she and her husband were unable to consume. Along with the bill, the couple included a note stating, “This cost reflects the amount paid by bride and groom for meals that were RSVPed for; reimbursement and explanation for no-show, card, call, or text would be appreciated.”
Johnson and her husband were preparing for the wedding when they learned that their childcare plans had fallen through due to a last-minute issue. Since the invitation specified “no children,” the couple decided not to attend. A few weeks later, they were surprised to receive the bill. Johnson remarked, “I guess I don’t know what the right answer would have been. What the right thing to do would have been.”
Planning a wedding is undeniably stressful and costly, but those who organize events typically account for potential no-shows, as they are a common occurrence. Unforeseen circumstances can arise, and is it really worth jeopardizing a relationship over a $75 bill?
Sarah Thompson, editor of a local wedding magazine, commented, “Under no circumstances should you choose to follow up after the fact, questioning why someone couldn’t attend or, worse, sending a bill.” If Johnson’s situation was as last-minute as she described, it’s unlikely anyone would want to disturb the bride on her special day to provide a heads-up.
If wedding expenses are so overwhelming that one feels compelled to act like a bill collector over a guest’s absence, it may be time to reassess your budget. Such behavior is considered quite rude and unacceptable.
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In summary, while planning a wedding can be stressful, charging guests for meals they did not consume is an inappropriate reaction. A thoughtful approach to managing expectations and budgets is crucial to avoid damaging relationships over minor setbacks.