In response to the increasing number of forgotten items being dropped off by parents, administrators at a high school in Florida have established a no-drop-off policy. At Lake Mary High School, a sign posted in the front office notifies students and parents that items like lunches, backpacks, and homework will not be accepted for drop-off. “Please plan accordingly,” the sign advises.
Principal Mark Thompson believes that students should arrive at school prepared. While the school does offer cafeteria lunches for those who forget their meals or lunch money, he emphasizes the importance of accountability. The surge in drop-offs is attributed to the convenience of cellphones, which allow students to quickly request assistance, as well as changing parental attitudes toward responsibility.
Reflecting on my own high school days, I recall never considering calling my parents to retrieve a forgotten item. Without cellphones, such communications were simply impractical, but even if I had the means, I would have hesitated unless it were an emergency.
Mistakes are a natural part of growing up, and high school serves as a crucial time for students to learn from their oversights. If we intervene every time a minor error occurs, we deprive them of essential lessons about responsibility and consequences. Forgetting gym shoes or a crucial assignment can have real academic repercussions, but these moments are opportunities for growth.
Principal Thompson points out the importance of responsibility: “Use your planner, use your phone … learn how to be accountable.” While this may seem harsh, it’s an important lesson for life. Adulthood comes with its own set of challenges, and understanding that no one will be there to correct our mistakes is vital for independence.
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In summary, while it may be tempting to rescue our children from their forgetfulness, allowing them to face the consequences of their actions can foster maturity and independence.